Dating In Sikhi

[Guest Kaur]

Wjkk, wjkf

I am a Amritdhari Gursikh girl in middle school. One of my closest Amritdhari friends recently told me that she had an Amritdhari boyfriend. I have always heard that dating is wrong in Sikhi. but since the boy was Amritdhari i didn't know if it was allowed or not. Can someone please enlighten me on this issue?

Also, my friend told me that, when i asked her if she was allowed to date, that other Amritdharis in school do it too and with girls/boys of other races and religions. Can someone Please clear this dating thing up with me and tell me what is right and wrong?

Wjkk, wjkf

[Guest dasguruka]

Vjkk Vjkf. It's wrong bhenji. When I took Amrit the 5 pyare told us not to touch others. Dating is not allowed to Gursikhs. If you like/love the guy then have your parents involved for a possible marriage. If not then follow your rehit as much as possible.

Vjkk VJkf

[Guest]

Dating is not allowed in Sikhi.Its banned in Sikhi.Do not listen to your friends cause they are wrong!!!

[Guest Kaur]

Wjkk, wjkf

Thank You your replies and i have an another question..

How do i try to tell my friend that this is wrong? She is a very close friend and I want her to connect with the Guru.

Can someone give me advice on how to approach her? I just want to help her.

Wjkk, wjkf

[singhbj singh]

Most probably your friend will not listen but give it a try.

She would think that you are jealous.

Once a person of opposite sex comes in the picture you will loose the status of being her best friend.

[tuhintuhin]

Wjkk, wjkf

Thank You your replies and i have an another question..

How do i try to tell my friend that this is wrong? She is a very close friend and I want her to connect with the Guru.

Can someone give me advice on how to approach her? I just want to help her.

Wjkk, wjkf

Give her a book named "Satwant Kaur" by Bhai Sahib Bhai Veer Singh ji and leave the rest to Guru Sahib. Her karam will take her where she's destined to, we can't change them.

[Guest Kaur]

Wjkk, wjkf

I tried to tell my friend that dating is wrong and she starts to call me Taksali! She said that her other friends are way more Taksali then me and they told her she can do whatever she wants to do as long as she does path and has 5 Kakaar. She has stopped talking and texting me and i am now very confused.

My question: what did i say that made her mad at me and call me Taksali? And please further explain the term 'Taksali"? Please I really need your help Sadh Sangat JI!

Wjkk, wjkf

[singhbj singh]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

Told you so.

Taksal means Sikh Educational Organisation like Damdami Taksal.

They are considered to be strict, disciplined-hardliners.

Kid just concentrate on your Jeevan, stay away from her.

It's Gods will that you stay away from her, accept it !

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

[Guest]

Agree with above poster.Stay away from her.

[innergear]

we need to b sensibl yes when time to get married we got get kno each other. So datin is one way. Its ok as long as u respect and no jump in bed here ther everywher. Or in back of cars . For the above topic 2 women go for sense o humor body height eyes voice successful money confidence conversation caringness looks are in ther but these r mor priority for them. Wo u say ladies right?