wedding/engagement ring

[Jassika]

should we wear a wedding ring? i actually dont think i'd prefer to

[Gurjeet_Kaur]

vaheguroo jee ka khalsa vaheguroo jee kee fateh!!

definitely not... the only 'jewelery' we should be wearing are our kakaars...

i know of a couple that exchanged kirpaana instead of wedding rings

[Khalsa04]

vaheguroo jee ka khalsa vaheguroo jee kee fateh!!

definitely not... the only 'jewelery' we should be wearing are our kakaars...

i know of a couple that exchanged kirpaana instead of wedding rings

FATEH!

[Nama Singh]

i agree - but i dont deem it that important. I think its something nice n special to have with your partner but not essential. Now, Christians wear rings (although half of them dont even know the significance) because ure wedding finger has a vein running from it that goes straight to your heart. But its kool if you gift each other with a kirpan or kara or something like that. But what is essential is gifting each other with pyaar and together gifting Maharaaj with pyaar for giving you that pyaar... if ya know wot i mean

:wub:

[Gupt daasan daas]

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

its in maryada

we shud give kirpans, kara, or any other kakaars

maharaj je says not to wear jewlerry

so, y wud we give it to other people

bhula chuka maf

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

[S1ngh]

Sure why not?

[Guest rsingh]

lol,

where has Guru ji said not to wear jewlerry. I m not agaainst the idea, think its kind of cool, just wondering y and y its said that.

and Jassika paanji whats up is this ment to be a hint to some one. :e:

[Gupt daasan daas]

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

surmwidk iSMgwr nihN nihN pr qrunI sMig

suramaadhik shi(n)gaar nehi(n) nehi(n) par tharunee sa(n)gi

Do not wear make-up or jewellery. Do not commit adultery.

Rehatnama Bhai Daya Singh Jee

prhir kpVu jy ipr imlY KusI rwvY ipru sMig ] sdw sIgwrI nwau min kdy n mYlu pqMgu ]

parehar kaparr jae pir milai khusee raavai pir sa(n)g || sadhaa seegaaree naao man kadhae n mail patha(n)g ||

Discarding worldly adornments, she meets her Husband Lord, and she celebrates joyfully with Him. She is adorned forever with the Name in her mind, and she does not have even an iota of filth.

from sikhitothemax.com

bhula chuka maf

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!

[Gupat Singhni]

Sikhs do not enter into the western concept of marriage, but rather into 'gristhee jeevan'. The point of gristee jeevan is that you are 1 soul going towards gurusahib.

I think, if a couple wish to exchange wedding gifts they should be sikhi related so that it will aid them on their journey towards gurusahib..these western gifts are meaningless in sikhi and we are only accustomed to them because we pay more attention to culture, fashion or tradition as oppose to sikhi.

That is just my opinion on the subject.

Bhul Chuk Maaf karne!

[Diljot Kaur]

Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa Vaheguroo jee kee fateh!

The most precious and priceless gems and jewels are obtained by serving the True Guru. (SGGSJ- 1323)

Kabeer, earrings made of gold and studded with jewels, look like burnt twigs, if the Name is not in the mind. ||4||

(SGGSJ-1364)

Jewels, treasures, pearls, gold and silver-all these are just dust.

(SGGSJ-47)

She is the most beautiful among women; upon her forehead she wears the Jewel of the Lord's Love.

(SGGSJ-53)

Great wealth, elephants, horses and jewels, purchased with tens of thousands of dollars;hereafter, these shall be of no avail in the Court of the Lord; the proud must depart, leaving them behind. ||1||

(SGGSJ-379)

Gold, jewels, giant pearls and rubies - I have no need for them.

(SGGSJ-406)

Vaheguroo jee ka khalsa Vaheguroo jee kee fateh!