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Changing face of Sikh Society

Who is a real Sikh (Singh and kaur) ?

To Whom should we call Sikh NOW?

Why Sikh girls want clean shaven to marry?

Wha'ts wrong with the Singh of GURU ?

Why we are making 12th guru ?

Are Sikh lost trust in them>

Why Newly Singh don't wanna live in Punjab ?

Why they always go out of india to settle ?

What makes singh to cut their hairs ?

Are Sikh girl ashame of Singh's Appearance ?

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Problem is that Sikh girls and boys are more interested in impressing each other than impressing their Guru.

That's true for Indian Sikhs not for Western Sikhs. Turban will only vanish if Sikhi vanishes and that will never happen.

Changing face of Sikh Society Who is a real Sikh (Singh and kaur) ? To Whom should we call Sikh NOW? Why Sikh girls want clean shaven to marry? Wha'ts wrong with the Singh of GURU ? Why we are ma

" Ithe Ik Kudhi rehndi a newham ch mere gwaandi a,,,Amritdhari nai a aje..but oh kendi a....."jide wich manu mera waheguru naa dise ,,jide Sir te dastaar

na hove,, jo banda na dise..Ude naal pyaar ho te ho hooooooooooo kida jauga...she says its impossible for a sikh girl to fall in love with a guy who is not

even looking a like our Gurus without dastaar and beard.. And main b ahi sochda...Je Saadiyan dhiyaan paina ...ch ida di soch a jave ta manu nai lagda ki

sikh banda kadi kesh katal krauga.. fe ah b bura lagda hai ki ik sardar banda ik befkuv kudhi piche apna maan sammmaan gwaaa reha ha anyways

"Sardars Had always beautiful wives and princesses and Have and will always have .... "

"Sardara nu na kudhiyaa whelene di thodh, Har kudhi nu naa mile Sardar nai"

"Har full (flower) te na benda ehe, jo jasan sach kenda

bhaagaa waali hi sehje ohda pyaar nai"..


Main ki gwaaaya c monaa bankee??? Puttt Sardara da*****

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Changing face of Sikh Society

Who is a real Sikh (Singh and kaur) ?

To Whom should we call Sikh NOW?

Why Sikh girls want clean shaven to marry?

Wha'ts wrong with the Singh of GURU ?

Why we are making 12th guru ?

Are Sikh lost trust in them>

Why Newly Singh don't wanna live in Punjab ?

Why they always go out of india to settle ?

What makes singh to cut their hairs ?

Are Sikh girl ashame of Singh's Appearance ?

The main problem is disbelief in Sri Guru Granth Sahib jeeo.

People don't read, contemplate & act according to Gurbani.

That's why there is no Shanti (peace) & Anand (bliss).

As for marriage "key to happy married life - low maintenance obedient wife"

Get a God fearing Indian girl from a financially lower background.

Acd, Bcd, Ccd's don't meet the minimum requirement of Mrs ie

W - washing

I - ironing

F - food

E - entertainment

P.S - Acd ( American confused desi )

Bcd ( British " " )

Ccd ( Canadian " " )

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.


sorry about multiple posts.

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

sorry about multiple posts.

lol..paji tu ban ho jana.....

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Are the last two posts for real? Sorry I know that isn't addressing the content, but:

1. Something needs to be said, and
2. Still too dumbfounded to respond meaningfully.

If the above is any indication, apparently the serious problem clearly lies with men.

And stop suggesting there is a general disinterest in dastars. Maybe there is if you live in a bollywood screen and with certain girls. Respectful non sikh women constantly pursue fully bearded turbanned sikhs all over the world, usually respectfully declined. Yet some of us let bollywood tell us who we are.

Societal issues, yes perhaps, do discuss respectfully. Keep in mind the topic can be challenging for any young person regardless of background. But on an individual level an iota true Sikh personality and the end result is an abundance of interest from higher quality more confident women. The dastar makes a Sikh aim higher and keeps us from settling for mediocre in every aspect of life. The only challenge a Sikh man should have is being respectful in his response to abundant interest.

Don't chase. Live the simple life of a graceful, true to yourself, open minded, poet warrior and the problem will be the opposite.

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well actually ive noticed one thing k je kuri amritdhari hoveh she'll always want an amritdhari husband

but eho jehe amritdahri singh v hai jo app singh ne par wife gori mem a LOL

basically many singhs get married to ordinary keshdhari/sehajdhari girls.

That's why many parents don't let their daughters take amrit before marriage because they also notice this, that its much harder for a amritdhari GIRL to find a partner...

well this is what I've seen

baki bhul chuk maaf ji

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Yes, Sikh girls are now ashamed of a Sikh man with with turban. The solution is, teach them about religion right from the childhood and don't give them too much freedom. If you give women too much freedom they will eventually get corrupted.

Are you serious?

Too much freedom corrupts women? What does it do to men?

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well actually ive noticed one thing k je kuri amritdhari hoveh she'll always want an amritdhari husband

but eho jehe amritdahri singh v hai jo app singh ne par wife gori mem a LOL

basically many singhs get married to ordinary keshdhari/sehajdhari girls.

That's why many parents don't let their daughters take amrit before marriage because they also notice this, that its much harder for a amritdhari GIRL to find a partner...

well this is what I've seen

baki bhul chuk maaf ji

you said it right.

Amritdhari guys specially in India want to marry sehajdahri girls.

You will see Singhs in Dumalla with wives full with make up and no chunni on their heads.

It goes both ways.

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What a SIKH he would be, who will change himself for a girl :)

He who don't even care about the Guruji's will, for a sake of a girl can cut his hair, I don't think he himself is worthy of being KHALSA.

I have seen many punjabi families who are so busy in Show-offs that they don't even care to make their children learn about sikhi, They themselves are so busy with MAYA that they make their children like them and then they complain about things getting wrong with the Youth.

I am not sure but my heart says that sikhi will raise to heights in coming years :) coz this religion is based on truth and practical knowledge.

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