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I am no different bhene, mai vi budda ho gya haan LOL! :D

Old people are wiser and make great leaders.

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Mehtab you are in the 'wise' category.

Do you think the original poster veersingh87 has issues with sikh girls having hair? It would be interesting to hear what troubles the boys.

Sikhs need to start understanding why they have hair and why they keep it. If you are truly happy with being natural then you should never have issues with hair and you should be teaching others when you meet them about why you do what you do!

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Mehtab paaji - we know each other from the old days of the forum - Is your friend Paapi still on here?

I am sorry if it sounds that I have been saying this to people. I never have. However when Sikh people talk to me like I know nothing about the rest of the world it's something that crosses my mind.

TurbanGuys - in answer to your question: none were following sikhi properly. The bottom line is that a Singh wearing a turban and a beard shouldn't have a problem with marrying a girl who keeps her hair.

TurbanGuys - in answer to your question: none were following sikhi properly. The bottom line is that a Singh wearing a turban and a beard shouldn't have a problem with marrying a girl who keeps her hair.

No one is sikh unless one follows each and every Gurus orders and teachings... The main problem is that we all are hypocrites (being non amritdharies) ..we all want to eat mithaii but we are also showing our desire to eat only barfi ...thats what i wanted to tell you.. hope you got it..

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No one is sikh unless one follows each and every Gurus orders and teachings... The main problem is that we all are hypocrites (being non amritdharies) ..we all want to eat mithaii but we are also showing our desire to eat only barfi ...thats what i wanted to tell you.. hope you got it..

I do not understand this. Loving someone if they remove their hair is like saying you can never love them completely by who they are - it's you actually loving them less.

If I was a boy and I was to guess - the reason sikh boys want a hairless girl is because media teaches them that pleasure comes in one form - pleasure actually has many forms!

Sikh boys need to realise that whoever they marry is going to get old, saggy and have days where they did not have time to remove their hair - what will you do then, are you suddenly going to love them less?

If we think about it - before razors and shavers were invented our ancestors were ok with hair - why do we have an issue?

In my opinion - most sikh boys have never had a relationship so how do they even know - other than what media has taught them. There is an experiment by Pavlov of how conditioning works and all this desire is about how we have been conditioned. You should google it because it is psychological.

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