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it did not work that way

and yes it had more success rate

when you would be kids, parent would find a girl and do roka

after sometime they marry their kids, but the kids/teenagers used to live with their own parents .

in this time period the love grew expecting that you have someone for you rather then sleeping around with more strangers

when the guy would be old enough say 24+ he would be sent to take muklava

and stay at the girls place for sometime and bring her back .

but westerners like to sleep with a stranger on first date or many strangers . and call this concept funny? how is it funny . all i see it , is better then westerners

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I don't agree with arranged marriage; however, I don't insult those who do because true marriage is arranged to Vaheguru. When you insult an arranged marriage your insulting your soul(bride) and the Vaheguru(groom). I do dislike the idea of arranged marriage and would prefer not going through one, but won't insult the concept of the marriage. Also don't insult love marriage,(which I personally don't appreaciate in the way it's done), as you also already had a love marriage arranged (with the Guru) you choose to be with the Guru or not through your relationship and ultimately the marriage is the Amrit.

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For Punj Piyaras you could say Marriage is Khandey da Amrit but why did Guru Sahibaan's, Bhagat's, Pir's, Holy people get married ?

They did get married, Yes, but they didn't get married for the silly ideas we normal people have. They married to live a family life, not because they thought the woman was attractive, or because she was smart, or even the fact that she was wealthy. They did it solely because of their family life philosophy, and would have married anyone. Best example of this is Guru Hargobind who we all should accept that he had 3 wives, (this is a fact, don't argue against it), he ultimately did so because of the Sangats desire to give their daughters in marriage. Guru Sahib respects the Sangat and did so our of his love of Sangat.
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