Lmao, reverse psychology, good idea. Convince her the husband is a mule or livestock to be reined by the bride; a metaphor for marriage. 😅😂 Debate over. Not only is Sikhi pro-female, the Sikh marriage ceremony demotes the groom to animal status. 

I think the poster meant from a resident Indian Sikh perspective, not those of us in the West.   I think you're correct if referring to previous eras, but the Quran and the Hadiths on which katha is done has been unchanged for centuries, and yet the tone and content on the part of our preachers hasn't shifted AT ALL. There's still an undeniable sense of the Sikh preaching hierarchy portraying a wistful, honourable, almost mythically spiritual, Arabian Nights quality to Mohammed's life.  Where is their responsibility to the truth while sitting adjacent to Guru Granth Sahib? Why are they presenting a distorted and misleading representation of reality to the sangat? Why do they get so worked up over Hindu deities yet ignore the flaws of Islam's "perfect human" despite him committing greater evil against humanity than the Hindu pantheon combined?

I disagree - I mean most Sikhs I know including younger ones are wary of Muslims and Islam

I just wanted to point out that person walking behind holding a palla control the person walking in front. just like how you can control an animal( horse). If you don't like the current Anand karaj maryada than please go ahead and get a court marriage.

Always bro.