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it has to do with maryada , why are you so dense !! ofcourse the other reason is genetic problem that might occur

Don't get frustrated. Some Sikhs like to marry their own blood family and even their cousins. They like the relaxed man made maryada that allows them to marry their own sisters and cousins. Keep it in the family............who knows maybe they can have children with a third eye and then scream..........HINDOOOOOO

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For benefit of all let me quote sikh rehst maryada published by SGPC which was approved by panth after much delibrations and taking view of all sampradayes on 3 feb 1945. It says on page page 25 under the heading "Sikh sikhnu da vyaah bina jaat , paat , got de vichar de hona chahiye" .Would any one singh give interpretation what does this mean? So far in our family (we are five brothers ) neither our parents or we nor our next generation gives any preference to jaat or gots in making aliances fir matrimony.

the gott restriction is only for genetics issue and as they are from same family tree, almost related .

so yes its a no no

however for your satisfaction i will soon post the quote from rehatnama,

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For benefit of all let me quote sikh rehst maryada published by SGPC which was approved by panth after much delibrations and taking view of all sampradayes on 3 feb 1945. It says on page page 25 under the heading "Sikh sikhnu da vyaah bina jaat , paat , got de vichar de hona chahiye" .Would any one singh give interpretation what does this mean? So far in our family (we are five brothers ) neither our parents or we nor our next generation gives any preference to jaat or gots in making aliances fir matrimony.

But I am supposing you didn't marry in your nanakey or dadkey yes? so you informally did what Guru ji suggested

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They have lost the plot. Caste system is based on a hierarchy. I am higher than x because i have a certain job and born in a higher family and x can never achieve my spot because my genetics are one of a kind and will need to go through multiple births and deaths before he can reach my caste.

Today a blue collared cannot marry a white collared because of the blue collared job is considered low in society. All those who want to fight caste should go after these white collared type of Sikhs. Why target the Sikh who has been beaten down. I know because he won't fight back. The white collared Sikhs would have you thrown out in a split second on your behinds. You are scared of them. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji went after the Brahmims, the white collared, first. If you want to follow in his foot steps then tackle the white collared people who have taken over your Gurdwaras.

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I assume after reading all rehatnameys that there is nothing found anywhere prescribing matching ig gitras, but yes social structures do have their own considerations. We shouldnot link it with sikh rehat maryada. On the contrary i find it linkrd to khap mentality ( in vogue in haryana & west UP jats)

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