This is what I mean about adolescent mindset. Our middle aged folk mentally think they are young and complain about the "elders " who are hogging up the limelight.
You are the "elder" now. You are not deferring authority to a 70 year old, but to a peer.
Now you are bollocking someone of the same age, in fact you don't have authority to them because they are not your elder and you can support the youngsters.
I always wondered at what age does the crusty old Singh period begin?
Is it in the 50's or 60's.
I reckon that there are middle aged people who complain about crusty Uncles when they are of the same age group.