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Thanks for your advice.

Yes, i m ready for turning into amritdhari and before you said this thats my goal.

N not just my goal but its his goal too..

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Yes i m argumenting because you were talking about sharm or laaj . Anyways leave.

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@garch Well to me having a bf means i have chosen a partner with whom i m ready to spend rest of my life. I dont see anything wrong or against sikhi.

Caste shouldn't even be an issue ! Parents should be thankful that their child is intending to make a life commitment with a sikh partner, as it could easily have been a muslim, hindu, gora..rastafar

how the heck has she let her parents down? her parents dont care about Sikhi as they believe in the anti-Sikh caste system. her husband to be is a Kesdhari and they haven't done anything before marr

ok and don't forget to keep rehat for at least two years before marriage and ,study Gurbani and Sikh history.

Khande de pahul can not be taken but is given as instructed in the pavitar bani Shri Anand sahib ji.

True love for Guru ji is the only way to receive it by his blessings and after asking / begging for the daat of Amrit.

if you take it just to get married to someone and do not keep rehat or take it under false pretenses then the consequences are also mentioned in the same beautiful bani under if one become bemukh from Guru ji.

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Is your(op) parents amritdhari? Are you and your parents follow any an holy figure whether in form of panj pyares or saint that you are willing to listen or have them meditate an solution?

So now want to promote following of a saint when Sikh

only Guru Granth Sahib.

Your confusion is increasing by every passing day.

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Is your(op) parents amritdhari? Are you and your parents follow any an holy figure whether in form of panj pyares or saint that you are willing to listen or have them meditate an solution?

So now want to promote following of a saint when Sikh

only Guru Granth Sahib.

Your confusion is increasing by every passing day.

He is not saying follow a saint and let go of Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Asking Panj Pyare is very helpful in a situation like this. They can set things right. A person of high avastha, a good gursikh is also a good idea to be consulted.

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Well ops parents need to hear it clealrly that Sikhs don't believe in camel jockie medieval caste junk system and they are not easing the amrit sanchar anand karaj process by bringing their caste baggage into it. That's first hurddle that has to resolved. Then op needs to be quizzed by panj pyares regarding her desire to take amrit and her soon to be spouse.

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Unfortunately caste does exist whether we like it or not our Guru sahibs told us not to indulge in such practices and to destroy our caste and lineage by asking for and receiving khande de phul which brings us into the khalsa family.

Had we listened and received Amrit / kept Rehat this would not have been an issue today it can only be eradicated in this way otherwise those who do not receive Amrit or after receiving Amrit and more importantly do not keep Rehat will keep coming up against this evil.

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Parents got caught off-guard. They may or maybe not against the caste lifestyle thing but it seems like they are mostly stuck with the shock that they got blindsided and their ego might be the reason that they are not changing their mind. Yes, you are adult and you have full right to make your decision

This young couple sbhullar and her Gusikh husband to be should definitely marry this year (in Canada if it has to be).

Is your wife also Jatt like u 1469 bro as that probably helped u with gaining ur parents consent most likely?

Parents haven't found any fault with the Gursikh guy the Singhni wants to marry.

Apart from the fact that he is from a certain background + society will be upset that they as parents did not enforce the idiotic hindu caste system on there daughter. Instead of being happy that the Gursikh in question clearly loves there daughter and isn't a druggie they are opposing Gurmat + Rehat because of society but I hope the father will support it

neither I nor my parents have set fire to my wife.

but u would have had u hindu caste system supporters not been led away from the worst excesses of your pathetic beliefs by Guru Sahib. the only choice u had in life was to marry a Jatt girl from India because u are Jatt

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ok and don't forget to keep rehat for at least two years before marriage and ,study Gurbani and Sikh history.

Khande de pahul can not be taken but is given as instructed in the pavitar bani Shri Anand sahib ji.

True love for Guru ji is the only way to receive it by his blessings and after asking / begging for the daat of Amrit.

if you take it just to get married to someone and do not keep rehat or take it under false pretenses then the consequences are also mentioned in the same beautiful bani under if one become bemukh from Guru ji.

I don't think you need to beg for Amrit, most gurdwaras just have like a signup sheet, I think

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