Intercaste Marriage - Jat Sikh Girl Vs Ramgharia Boy

[Sbhullar]

@ Jagsaw

I never set that if i go for arrange marriage my in law set me to fire or sumthing. I am not against arrange marriage.

I m just saying that if my parents cant trust a guy i chose as they think may be he is takinng advantage for money or just to come abroad, then how can they sumone they wud chose??

I wont into detail but my bro in law is one such example. My parents chose him. My sis hv to adjust acc to him. But they way he treat my sis, my family cant bear. My parents dont like my bro in laws behaviour. But wat can they do. Even if he slap my sis, my parent cnt go n stop him.

No matter who chose, parents or a girl, you have to trust sumbody. Rest is luck.

[Sbhullar]

@sheikh

Thankyou for your support. 'I m still looking forward to have everything peacefully. I m trying every posible way to convince them.

My wish is to have my family n my love n his family altogether. That would be heaven for me and i would b the happiest girl.

Thanks for your support bro.

[sat]

last i remember all others are either brother,son or father until our parents find a suitable match and only after Anand karaj do we set foot into the life of a gristi physically or mentally

but the caste issue here has warped the minds of many after reading some posts and they have forgotten this, maybe it would be different issue if their sister or daughter was talking about boyfriends or maybe not, where has the sharam gone in our people ?

[Sbhullar]

@ sat

If your daughter come and ask same thing , what would you do , will you kill her ?

[sat]

Your question sbhullar

@sat

if your daughter come and ask same thing, what would you do , will you kill her ?

What a question seems your foolishness has no limits, has your father killed you or are you out to kill your poor parents :no:

it seems whoever has a different view to you, you seem to attack them with your words like the statement you have made above

maybe this immaturity is another reason why your parents are reluctant to go with your plans.

I have read your post and replies and conclude you are an argumentative person who knows it all, then why have you posted here for advice if you know it all !

Do as you wish but we can only advice on as per rehat set by the hukam of the the tenth lord , a Sikh would never harm his or another daughter only a foolish person who does not follow Guru ji's hukam would suggest such a thing.

My reply would be both take khande de phul keep rehat for at least two years and stay apart and then after which get married.

Are you willing to do this ?

Our Father destroyed castes for us by giving us khande de phul and rehat but those who do not receive or follow Guru hukam keep suffering and blaming others and do not look at themselves.

[Sbhullar]

@sat

Thanks for your advice.

Yes, i m ready for turning into amritdhari and before you said this thats my goal.

N not just my goal but its his goal too..

@ sat

Yes i m argumenting because you were talking about sharm or laaj . Anyways leave.

[sat]

ok and don't forget to keep rehat for at least two years before marriage and ,study Gurbani and Sikh history.

Khande de pahul can not be taken but is given as instructed in the pavitar bani Shri Anand sahib ji.

True love for Guru ji is the only way to receive it by his blessings and after asking / begging for the daat of Amrit.

if you take it just to get married to someone and do not keep rehat or take it under false pretenses then the consequences are also mentioned in the same beautiful bani under if one become bemukh from Guru ji.

[N30S1NGH]

Is your(op) parents amritdhari? Are you and your parents follow any an holy figure whether in form of panj pyares or saint that you are willing to listen or have them meditate an solution?

[JSinghnz]

Is your(op) parents amritdhari? Are you and your parents follow any an holy figure whether in form of panj pyares or saint that you are willing to listen or have them meditate an solution?

So now want to promote following of a saint when Sikh

only Guru Granth Sahib.

Your confusion is increasing by every passing day.

[N30S1NGH]

Relax most people who do panj pyares di seva are saints anyway.