Is Sexual Attraction Really That Bad?

[singh598]

Only sexual attraction during procreation is acceptable as Bhai gurdas clarifies

If you go more deeper into spiritually of Sikhism then the sakhi of Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji going to dharm puri ( the righteous land) comes to mind

Here there is only purity and no 5 evils. The rivers flow of milk and metal is replaced with gold

Bhai Mardana asks that in this righteous world if there is no sex then how do the humans procreate?

Satguru answers that all the humans here posess Bhog Dristee amongst other spiritual powers

Mahapursh such as baba nand singh sant attar singh et al all possessed this power

[kharkusingh1996]

Only sexual attraction during procreation is acceptable as Bhai gurdas clarifies

If you go more deeper into spiritually of Sikhism then the sakhi of Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji going to dharm puri ( the righteous land) comes to mind

Here there is only purity and no 5 evils. The rivers flow of milk and metal is replaced with gold

Bhai Mardana asks that in this righteous world if there is no sex then how do the humans procreate?

Satguru answers that all the humans here posess Bhog Dristee amongst other spiritual powers

Mahapursh such as baba nand singh sant attar singh et al all possessed this power

Bhog dristee explain a little more?

[Sat1176]

Kaam is one of those double edged swords. On one side it is stated :

do not ever associate with sexual desire or anger. (SSGS 343)

kaam krodhh sang kabahu n behahu

However Kaam is also one of the 4 treasures (char padarath)

Righteous faith, wealth, sexual , success and salvation (mokh); the Lord bestows these four blessings.
Dharam arath ar kaam mokh mukat padaarath naath.
One who has such pre-ordained destiny upon his forehead, O Nanak, has all his desires fulfilled.
sagal manorath poori-aa naanak likhi-aa maath. (SGGS 927)

In the Sadh Sangat, the company of the Holy, I worship and adore the Lord, the infinite treasure. He does not hesitate to bless me with Dharmic faith, wealth, sexual success and liberation.

sadhsang aradhna har nidh apar. dharam arth ar kaam mokh dete nahi baar.

[singh598]

Kaam is one of those double edged swords. On one side it is stated :

do not ever associate with sexual desire or anger. (SSGS 343)

kaam krodhh sang kabahu n behahu

However Kaam is also one of the 4 treasures (char padarath)

Righteous faith, wealth, sexual , success and salvation (mokh); the Lord bestows these four blessings.

Dharam arath ar kaam mokh mukat padaarath naath.

One who has such pre-ordained destiny upon his forehead, O Nanak, has all his desires fulfilled.

sagal manorath poori-aa naanak likhi-aa maath. (SGGS 927)

In the Sadh Sangat, the company of the Holy, I worship and adore the Lord, the infinite treasure. He does not hesitate to bless me with Dharmic faith, wealth, sexual success and liberation.

sadhsang aradhna har nidh apar. dharam arth ar kaam mokh dete nahi baar.

here kaam refers to desires of living life in a way that your not poor or helpless rather your desires for a good looking woman, heakthy body, nice house , nice car nice relatives may my kids get degrees etc etc basically means raj and jog

[thugger]

You've probably read this before, but IIRC, Guru Gobind Singh once wrote something along the lines of "my father (guru teg bahadur) told me " love your wife as much as you want, but do not enter another woman's bed, even in your dreams""

So I suppose sexual attraction is OK between married people, but as someone mentioned above, if you're just checking out random people on the street, that's considered sinful.

Sorry about any typing errors, on mobile ATM.

Edit: will try to link to above quote when I'm on my computer

[singh598]

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