I don't think many would disagree with that, and I think what you are suggesting is a good idea. If a bloke's missus just can't get on with his family, then he maybe he should stop taking her to them and just visit on his own or with the kids.
I think that cultural pressure of keeping up appearances impacts on that though, and the bloke would probably feel a way about not being at family gatherings with his missus. And you know how many of our lot would gossip.
Yeah that's true, the country got divided because he was a weak leader who believed by folding hands and calling muslims "brothers" would keep the subcontinent united. India needed a strong male leader, to face the Muslim separatists and the British. The divide of the subcontinent was inevitable with the leader being a half naked man carrying a goat around with him. Weakest leader, his only trick was dressing like poor man and it clearly didn't work.