I stopped paying heed to the arguments of emotionally-driven women and ineffectual men who, funnily enough, whip other people into a frenzy and send them off to their demise while they themselves stand on the sidelines observing the ensuing carnage. The elders of human civilization who identified this behaviour were seemingly wiser than most.
So did some sikhs who were convinced that the end goal justified any means by hindus in INC, my point is both are fascist in their own ways so don't think that you are getting any pass from either. You like labelling people don't you but truth is you cannot sidestep the duty assigned to sikhs by the Guru because it is inconvenient. All it takes for evil to thrive is for the good people to do nothing .
people who have no one , still have sharan in Guru's house if they come , and if someone comes to a sikh for help we are duty bound to do our best. These women and children have gone through the same things as our widows and children did in 1984 , house invasions then murder and rape torture .If people didn't help ours back then does that mean we do the wrong thing now like them or do what our Guru ji said?