Are Sikhs A Pit Bull Race That Enjoys Fighting & Arguing With Our Own Kind?

[eduardo]

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[Guest Jacfsing2]

Tuuuune:

I think you'll like this song: https://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=6o36cwCfPHA

[SikhKosh]

ਕਬੀਰ ਗਰਬੁ ਨ ਕੀਜੀਐ ਰੰਕੁ ਨ ਹਸੀਐ ਕੋਇ ॥

Kabeer, do not be so proud, and do not laugh at the poor.

ਅਜਹੁ ਸੁ ਨਾਉ ਸਮੁੰਦ੍ਰ ਮਹਿ ਕਿਆ ਜਾਨਉ ਕਿਆ ਹੋਇ ॥੩੯॥

Your boat is still out at sea; who knows what will happen? ||39||

ਕਬੀਰ ਗਰਬੁ ਨ ਕੀਜੀਐ ਦੇਹੀ ਦੇਖਿ ਸੁਰੰਗ ॥

Kabeer, do not be so proud, looking at your beautiful body.

ਆਜੁ ਕਾਲ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ ਤਜਿ ਜਾਹੁਗੇ ਜਿਉ ਕਾਂਚੁਰੀ ਭੁਯੰਗ ॥੪੦॥

Today or tomorrow, you will have to leave it behind, like the snake shedding its skin. ||40||

[eduardo]

I think you'll like this song: https://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=6o36cwCfPHA

That link just took me to the generic youtube opening page, the link is not attached to any song just youtubes opening page.

Could you try again please?

[Guest Jacfsing2]

That link just took me to the generic youtube opening page, the link is not attached to any song just youtubes opening page.

Could you try again please?

I clicked it and it seemed ok, but I'll try again:

If that doesn't work here's an mp3 download link: http://mp3mad.com/download-721628s/Shukar-Dateya-Prabh-Gill.html

[shastarsewak]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

This beahviour, generally called "Lattaan Khichniyaa", "Moday Kuhniya marnay" "Choondiya Wadniyaa" - we must get Sikhi out of this equation. If we were really "Sikhs" as per gurmat, there will be no conflict, no arguments at all, and we will find joy in doing Sewa!

Our culture, Punjabism, Punjabiyat, it is mostly dominated by males. If you observe, such behaviour did exist in past too, but there were no fights, there was harmony, most people exercised "sehaj". Like bajurg people always say "Chall Hau, Koi Na, Shad parray". You will also observe women were first to step down, some chose not to present any sort of challenge at all.

Take case of an ordinary family, nowadays, we see there is no connection, everyone is fighting. Some people (mostly males) blame that women are too liberal these days, which is not only wrong, but it shows all these years male's dominating attitude never changed, it was unchallanged before, but now kids challenge, wives challenge, some times some families have dominating females, in such cases men presents a challenge. We often choose to contradict, question, sometimes these challenges have authentic basis, and sometimes presenting challenge is a plain hobby.

Why so? We have been fed materialism too the core, Money is the objective of every action, and this gives rise to the 5, in some people greed dominates, in some ego, in some anger etc etc. We just have forgotten the concept of "dekh ke andekhya karna", but like I said before such concepts have beem misused as well. I say Guru is right, Kaljug is getting stronger. An average person is having such difficult life (Fears such as of Loans, Mortgages, job stability, political system etc etc.) most of time one is so angry at every other person, one little word, the rage takes over. We all want to use our wisdom, not for welfare, but to point out that we are smarter, there is competition going on at every level.

Perhaps, this is why Sikhism is unique, it doesn't promises material heaven, but Guru Sahib ji says - if YOU actually listen to me, you can live happily in chaos, you can live like a King when you have nothing to eat. Raja Yoga is the state of mind that we need to earn!

We usually let T.V/Media/Successful people manufacture our lifestyle, our perspectives are guided by materialsm - if we actually let Guru take charge of our lives, we can live happily, then we will automatically let others live happily too. When we give controls to Guru Sahib, think of this as a Missile, just when you handle controls to Guru Sahib, the missile is already taking feedback(wisdom) from our current lifestyle(material), it will either overshoot(preacher who doesn't believe in practise) or get lost in enemy jamming(Maya, 5 evil) or aerodynamic forces(Gareebi, health, material conforts) will counter our progress completely or maybe our propulsion unit (faith/trust in Guru) will malfunction totally, but Guru will keep changing the parameters and connect us to the "Referenced Model" (wisdom of Sri Guru Granth Sahib), sooner or later the feedback systems(sikhi Sidak) will pick up the navigational auto-correction parameters, the Guidance laws of experienced Guru will steer us to our Target - Life of a Saint-Soldeir and Sachkhand!

Sarbat da Bhala!