Harnaam Kaur Has Gone Mad

[Guest Just wt is going on]

There is massive beadbi of sikhi saroop being done by harnaam . She no longer believes in sikhi yet wears dastaar. Wat is going on is she possessed? Look at her instagram and facebook to see the disgusting things she posts up.. How she allowed to do just get away with that??

[Singhni MiriPiri]

I agree that she shouldn't be wearing a dastar as she is no longer a sikh. It is very disrespectful and embarrassing to other singhnia and Sikhs in general. For example, she drinks alcohol, dances and displays/discusses sexual-content openly etc and non-sikhs will think that is what Sikhs do. It doesn’t matter if she openly says she isn’t religious anymore because she looks like a sikh. But truthfully what can you do? The only way to tackle this is not to give amrit away so freely but to test the individual’s spiritual dedication to naam and bani.

Btw, it's not very nice to say she has gone mad or is possessed.

[S4NGH]

Who?

[Guest Tom]

Harnaam Kaur the bearded girl

[Guest Hui]

Harnaa kaur the famous girl with a large beard

[kamc]

I take it we're talking about that young girl who has Polycystic ovary syndrome and has a beard as a result, i just had a quick look at her social media feeds (Facebook/Instagram),reading through her Instagram it's pretty obvious that she isn't religious, she seem's to have made an image for herself in the early day's which showed her with a dastaar and she's stuck with it, it's more of a fashion statement than anything else, it's a shame really but we only have ourselves to blame, our community didn't want to understand her condition and she looked elsewhere but, yeah, she should really remove her dastaar if she's not willing to respect it but then i see plenty of guys out on a weekend with a full beard and a dastaar with a beer in there hand, is there really any difference.

[Guest gupt]

She was very religious at one point and was inspiring other Singhnis. Who are we to judge why Maharaaj took away that Sikhi from her? "Bhanay ujharr bhanay raha" (Ang 98).

Are other Singhnis with facial hair going to do parchaar of what sikhi really is? She can get away with being so high profile because we have no way of countering it with other examples of girls who have facial hair and have the confidence to counter.

[MisterrSingh]

Never elevate anyone onto a pedestal, because you'll invariably be disappointed somewhere down the line. As for this young lady she should be cut some slack. She's young, she's learning, making mistakes like we all do. Hers just happened to be in the public eye.

[Singhni MiriPiri]

There are still many other singhnia with facial hair that you can take inspiration from such as Balpreet Kaur. And you can still take inspiration from Harnaam Kaur even if she is not a sikh as you can admire her for her strength. I just personally think that as a role model to younger girls, who may be struggling with pcos, she should portray herself much better online and certain things should be kept private. As a side note, in a sikhi point of view you are allowed to be treated for severe pcos medically (not laser treatment) as long as the intent is right.

It is also important to remember that as well as keeping the outwardly form as a sikh, we should be building our sikhi internally too by connecting ourselves with Guru Sahib through Naam and Bani. I don’t believe someone is able to leave sikhi when we build a strong connection with Guru Sahib because although we may try to look elsewhere Guru Sahib wouldn’t be able to leave us.

Its a shame, you can tell from Harnaam Kaur’s social media that she is primarily focusing on relationships when in fact she doesn’t realise that she is looking for Vaheguru who will love and understand her fully. But each to their own.

[Guest Gupt]

I just find it astonishing that she posting such vulgar stuff .. I mean i cnt even fathom how she is able to grope her breast on an instagram video wearing a dastaar. Actually made me want to be sick with disgust. The problem is not her doing that, if she wants to she could post a fully naked picture for all i care.. (well she halfway there anyway) but its the bad reflection she is giving of an amritdhari bibi. Her fb acc has her updating that she is drunk and the moods she is in. Like do that if u want right but for gods sake why oh why in a dastaar. Sumbody asked me is this what you are allowed to do. I just cnt cope.. Plus she refers to herself as pansexual. Vaheguru hee jaane and saadi laaj rakhlave always forever.