Jump to content

Can An Amritdhari Wed A Non Amritdhari?


Guest nervousingh
 Share

Recommended Posts

Hazur Sahib does not give full amrit to women, it's called Kirpan Di Amrit: here's a long lengthy article about it: http://www.amritworld.com/main/?p=86#sthash.HfJ53XL1.dpbs

I'm not arguing either way, just presenting facts, which I haven't seen you do.

First you posted, Nihangs don't allow women to take Amrit. Now you're saying women in Hazur Sahib are allowed to take kirpan da Amrit. And your source is a blog. Don't know who created it. I have seen with my own eyes Nihangs be married to a bibi who is Amritdhari. Giving kirpan da Amrit to women is wrong. What concerns me is your first general statement.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I knew a couple of Nihang Singhs (British born) treated shabbily by their newly wed wives from back home. They were decent guys, but even their Gursikh wives found their husbands' rehat tough to handle so they divorced their husbands within a couple or so years. Makes you wonder what they were expecting when they married these Singhs. Society will say the Singhs are to blame for being inflexible, but I certainly wouldn't. If these ladies wanted a good-time Charlie then marrying a Nihang is not conducive to that lifestyle. Unless they thought that age-old thing of, "I'll change him when we're married."

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest Jacfsing2

First you posted, Nihangs don't allow women to take Amrit. Now you're saying women in Hazur Sahib are allowed to take kirpan da Amrit. And your source is a blog. Don't know who created it. I have seen with my own eyes Nihangs be married to a bibi who is Amritdhari. Giving kirpan da Amrit to women is wrong. What concerns me is your first general statement.

If you watch the video of Sant Jarnail Singh Bhinderwale on women, you'll hear he mentions something called Kirpan Da Amrit being given to women only in some bad jathas, (non-Taksal) which is not full Amrit, (unless your going to call him a liar)
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 3 years later...
On 3/28/2015 at 4:02 PM, Guest nervousingh said:

The guys kesdhari, just hasnt decided to take amrit yet, wants to progress with rehat before committing to amrit.

what does that mean?

so when will he take it?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share


  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • yeh it's true, we shouldn't be lazy and need to learn jhatka shikaar. It doesn't help some of grew up in surrounding areas like Slough and Southall where everyone thought it was super bad for amrit dharis to eat meat, and they were following Sant babas and jathas, and instead the Singhs should have been normalising jhatka just like the recent world war soldiers did. We are trying to rectifiy this and khalsa should learn jhatka.  But I am just writing about bhog for those that are still learning rehit. As I explained, there are all these negative influences in the panth that talk against rehit, but this shouldn't deter us from taking khanda pahul, no matter what level of rehit we are!
    • How is it going to help? The link is of a Sikh hunter. Fine, but what good does that do the lazy Sikh who ate khulla maas in a restaurant? By the way, for the OP, yes, it's against rehit to eat khulla maas.
    • Yeah, Sikhs should do bhog of food they eat. But the point of bhog is to only do bhog of food which is fit to be presented to Maharaj. It's not maryada to do bhog of khulla maas and pretend it's OK to eat. It's not. Come on, bro, you should know better than to bring this Sakhi into it. Is this Sikh in the restaurant accompanied by Guru Gobind Singh ji? Is he fighting a dharam yudh? Or is he merely filling his belly with the nearest restaurant?  Please don't make a mockery of our puratan Singhs' sacrifices by comparing them to lazy Sikhs who eat khulla maas.
    • Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
    • Instead of a 9 inch or larger kirpan, take a smaller kirpan and put it (without gatra) inside your smaller turban and tie the turban tightly. This keeps a kirpan on your person without interfering with the massage or alarming the masseuse. I'm not talking about a trinket but rather an actual small kirpan that fits in a sheath (you'll have to search to find one). As for ahem, "problems", you could get a male masseuse. I don't know where you are, but in most places there are professional masseuses who actually know what they are doing and can really relieve your muscle pains.
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use