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Maybe stop watching so much porn Jacoff bro? Good luck Veer. It was brave of u to admit your masturbation problem.

There is a problem, I don't really watch

porn. It just happens.

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Whats the key problem? The problem is MANY PEOPLE do not REALIZE that Porn /Masturbation is the SYMPTOM not the CAUSE.. .. You have to go deep within you and THINK ABOUT what really is the PROBLEM. What realy bothers you..? Do you feel lonely? Do you feel unloved etc..? Once you get there and you realize that... You are succesfully starting to FIGHT YOUR ADDICTION: Porn /masturbation excessively is AN ADDICTION. That why it is hard to quit. That why people keep failing OVER and OVER again after they start.. "no more fap"..

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Reading through the SGSS, the goal of sikhi is to to realise the dasam dhuar. This is the opening which connects us to Waheguru.

On page 122 it says Indri vas sach sanjam jugta. Gur ke shabd sada har dheyae eha bhagat har bhavneya.
They control their sexual desires and thier lifestyle is the self discipline of truth. Through the word of the Guru's shabad, they meditate forever on the Lord. This devotional worship is pleasing to the Lord.

On page 124 nao dhar thake dharat rahae. dhasve nij ghar vasa paye.
Those who close off the nine gates, and restrain the wandering mind come to dwell in the Home of the tenth gate.

The nine gates are our nine bodily openings which are the 2 eyes, 2 ears, 2 nostrils. mouth and 2 excretory organs. When we can control all our senses fully then the tenth gate which is the dasam dhuar will open and we can sense waheguru. This is what we should be working for. If we give in to lust then we will have difficulty establishing a true and pure relationship with waheguru.

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