How Sikhi Helped With Overcoming Abuse

[Quantavius]

it can be deemed that you are calling her cowardly for not reporting her father, and ungrateful because out of the whole article you felt you needed to point out how you have been extremely grateful for having a roof and food on the table, hence implying that she should be too. The article is not asking you about your father, but merely her explaining as a 10 year old how she felt about her father.

Basically you're putting words into my mouth just because you have a different opinion. Not very 'Sikhi' of you. LOL!

This is a forum where different views and ideas are exchanged. There is no rule that states one poster must agree with other and cannot have a differing view just because that person feel extremely sensitive on a certain subject matter. In fact, this very notion defeats the idea of having a forum whereby posters are able to freely exchange/share different viewpoints.

As to the point about the father, you obviously have problems with your reading comprehension. It is irrelevant if the article is asking about my viewpoint about my father. I am able to criticize the article as I see fit as this is a still a forum after all.

If you are going to put up your story, be prepared for opposing views. That is life. Not everybody is going to agree with you. If you have a problem with this here, you are going to have problems in real life as nobody in the real world is going to care about your 'sensitivities' and will tell you off in your face.

[Singhni MiriPiri]

it can be deemed that you are calling her cowardly for not reporting her father, and ungrateful because out of the whole article you felt you needed to point out how you have been extremely grateful for having a roof and food on the table, hence implying that she should be too. The article is not asking you about your father, but merely her explaining as a 10 year old how she felt about her father.

I believe it would have taken an extreme amount of strength to face these issues, to seek answers, and to seek help and speak to a counsellor about it. To be betrayed by the very person who is there to nurture and protect you. I can not even begin to imagine how much strength it would have taken to put pen to paper.

Thank you sister for sharing your story and may Guru Maharaj continue to heal you.

Well said!

[SheikhYoBooty]

To the Kaur who posted u are the strongest bravest person on this thread.

Being strong isn't about being the best at debating someone just for the heck of it but about surviving suffering!

Kaur u are a true inspiration just like how all the cool posters like Singhni MiriPiri, Japnaam and Brave already said.

KazimaKazima Ji i'm sorry if i was rude to u before. I was wrong about u + I respect ur post on this thread.

最大に私の姉妹を尊重

[amarjitpalli]

Basically you're putting words into my mouth just because you have a different opinion. Not very 'Sikhi' of you. LOL!

This is a forum where different views and ideas are exchanged. There is no rule that states one poster must agree with other and cannot have a differing view just because that person feel extremely sensitive on a certain subject matter. In fact, this very notion defeats the idea of having a forum whereby posters are able to freely exchange/share different viewpoints.

As to the point about the father, you obviously have problems with your reading comprehension. It is irrelevant if the article is asking about my viewpoint about my father. I am able to criticize the article as I see fit as this is a still a forum after all.

If you are going to put up your story, be prepared for opposing views. That is life. Not everybody is going to agree with you. If you have a problem with this here, you are going to have problems in real life as nobody in the real world is going to care about your 'sensitivities' and will tell you off in your face.

Oooooooooooooops!! Harsh words again! The real world out there is not completely composed of harsh people for your kind information. There are plenty of nice and caring people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their sesitivities towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Opposing views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing something bad on the forum is not so good.

[Quantavius]

Oooooooooooooops!! Harsh words again! The real world out there is not completely composed of harsh people for your kind information. There are plenty of nice and caring people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their sesitivities towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Opposing views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing something bad on the forum is not so good.

Oooooooooooooops!! Huge fragile ego again! The real world out there is not completely composed of people with huge ego's for your kind information. There are plenty of humble and secure people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their opinion towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Similar views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing an opposing view on the forum is not so good.

[amarjitpalli]

Oooooooooooooops!! Huge fragile ego again! The real world out there is not completely composed of people with huge ego's for your kind information. There are plenty of humble and secure people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their opinion towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Similar views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing an opposing view on the forum is not so good.

I did not know my opinion would cause you to reply in such a fainthearted manner? Have I said something too difficult for you to handle? Oooops, I do beg your pardon, for not realizing that! I thought you fully supported opposing opinions and told others off for not having them. You have really got me confused now. You mention some cliches such as 'fragile ego,' 'huge egos,' you wouldn't be referring to yourself by any chance? Of course, there are plenty of nice and caring people out there as well as humble and secure ones, but surely not everyone can be classed as such. There must be some that are not. Can you imagine how hard it must have been for someone to tell us about what her father did to her as a child. She came on this forum with a good heart hoping her readers would be 'humble and secure' who would listen to her story with empathy and in friendship. No, this is not how you reacted. You judged her and mocked her for sharing her pathetically sad experiences with us. This goes to prove how humble and secure you must be as a person. Instead of listening to her kindly and trying to understand what she must have felt when she was going through with her bad experiences, you did the opposite. So, no way, anyone can class you as a humble or secure individual. In my humble and secure opinion, it is really bad to be bad to someone who has already suffered something horrendously bad and is seeking to share her experiences with others with a good and honest heart.

I sincerely hope my piece of writing above has not shaken your super fragile and super huge ego. Have a nice life.

Oooooooooooooops!! Harsh words again! The real world out there is not completely composed of harsh people for your kind information. There are plenty of nice and caring people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their sesitivities towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Opposing views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing something bad on the forum is not so good.

In my humble and secure opinion this is my best composition so far! I am stating this opinion in the absence of a fragile or a huge ego!