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it can be deemed that you are calling her cowardly for not reporting her father, and ungrateful because out of the whole article you felt you needed to point out how you have been extremely grateful for having a roof and food on the table, hence implying that she should be too. The article is not asking you about your father, but merely her explaining as a 10 year old how she felt about her father.

Basically you're putting words into my mouth just because you have a different opinion. Not very 'Sikhi' of you. LOL!

This is a forum where different views and ideas are exchanged. There is no rule that states one poster must agree with other and cannot have a differing view just because that person feel extremely sensitive on a certain subject matter. In fact, this very notion defeats the idea of having a forum whereby posters are able to freely exchange/share different viewpoints.

As to the point about the father, you obviously have problems with your reading comprehension. It is irrelevant if the article is asking about my viewpoint about my father. I am able to criticize the article as I see fit as this is a still a forum after all.

If you are going to put up your story, be prepared for opposing views. That is life. Not everybody is going to agree with you. If you have a problem with this here, you are going to have problems in real life as nobody in the real world is going to care about your 'sensitivities' and will tell you off in your face.

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Oooooooooooooops!! Harsh words again! The real world out there is not completely composed of harsh people for your kind information. There are plenty of nice and caring people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their sesitivities towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Opposing views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing something bad on the forum is not so good.

Oooooooooooooops!! Huge fragile ego again! The real world out there is not completely composed of people with huge ego's for your kind information. There are plenty of humble and secure people out there in the real world, thank god for that! Everyone is entitled to their opinion towards something so I can't see why would anyone want to tell someone off for having them. Similar views are fine but to to be bad to people for sharing an opposing view on the forum is not so good.

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