Look who's pointing fingers and you will find either Indian govt or bheki sikh parchariks trying to undermine the people doing True parchar, if Bhai Jagraj Singh didn't get ill and die , he would have been targetted also. SGPC doesn't like their vice-like grip on parchaar being undermined
I suppose you could say they're ignoring hukam, which would suggest there's a selective choosing and not choosing to follow whatever aligns with their pre-existing mentality. Picking and choosing is a slippery slope.
But, to be fair, there have been souls in the past who have been advised not to enter the grisht lifestyle for myriad reasons. Unfortunately, this has been seized upon by contemporary calculating virtue signallers for their own vested interests, either because they're homosexual or they've decided they don't want to partake in the lifestyle of a householder because it's actually really difficult to be an effective husband and father.
The ones who truly have chosen the bachelor (or spinster) path for spiritual reasons don't make a song and dance about it, and they certainly don't broadcast their intentions to garner admiration and praise for serving the Lord selflessly. That's just an act.
Of course, it's all for naught if one professes to be single for God whilst j4cking off at every conceivable private moment. In that case, you may have fooled the people but God sees you, and he thinks you're a clown! 😀
Last year we had Sukhmani Sahib paat in our house. There were a lot of people so we were all sitting squished together and i ended up sitting next to my mums friends daughter. Shes only around 18/19 years old and the paati doing kirtan was sitting directly in front of us and he was staring at her the whole time while doing kirtan! for the whole half an hour he was just staring at her! luckily her and her mother had their eyes closed with their heads lowered down. I dont think anyone else saw him doing that because me and her and her mother were the only ones sitting directly opposite him, everyone else was at the side. It was really bad! for half an hour his eyes just fixed on her while doing kirtan.
Most these paatis don't have their wives with them and they live in the Gurdware.
I wonder if they get told off when they go to other peoples houses and just stare like that.