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Why Guru Sahibaan's Had Multiple Wives, Truth Or Made Up Stories !


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And this is based on????

'According to historians, Guru HarGobind Ji was married thrice, but there are those who argue that this account is confusing and probably not accurate, as it is also said that the name of his bride before marriage changed after marriage in the husband's house (as was the custom at the time). Historians say that Guru Ji's first wife was Mata Damodari, the daughter of Narain Das of the village of Talla. She gave birth to Baba Gurditta, Bibi Veero and Ani Rai Ji. His second marriage was with Bibi Nanki daughter of Hari Chand of the village of Bakala. She was the mother of Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji. His third marriage was to Bibi Mahadevi daughter of Daya Ram of the village of Jandiyali, from the Shekhupura district, which is now part of Pakistan. Bibi Mahadevi gave birth to Suraj Mall Ji and Baba Atal Ji.'

It might not be correct but this is all I got.

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Look basically, some of the gurus had multiple wives, but they only had sexual relations with 1 wife! In the olden days, n possibly still 2day, wen ppl come n offer their daughters to u to marry, if the boy says no, its considered behsti. Then subsequently the girl in question is shunned by every1 as something dirty n unmarriagable, coz she was rejected. So for this reason guru jis had to marry women, otherwise those women wud b shunned by every1 in the future. But as i mentioned above, they didnt have sexual relations with those additional women.

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Look basically, some of the gurus had multiple wives, but they only had sexual relations with 1 wife! In the olden days, n possibly still 2day, wen ppl come n offer their daughters to u to marry, if the boy says no, its considered behsti. Then subsequently the girl in question is shunned by every1 as something dirty n unmarriagable, coz she was rejected. So for this reason guru jis had to marry women, otherwise those women wud b shunned by every1 in the future. But as i mentioned above, they didnt have sexual relations with those additional women.

The Gurus did not possess this pendu mindset which you refer to (bhesti), they were above such stupid village principles.

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I don't think they have had those kinds of relations with wives (considering they have defeated KAAM krodh moh lobh ahankar etc).. Many mahapurukhs bless their wives/women with a child by putting their hand on their stomach.

Your fairy tales are so funny.

Lol. Why don't you join a circus as a

clown.

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Like Sri Krishna ji, Gorakhnath ji, and many other people blessed children vardans on people without obvious physical relations. I am sure that some of our Sri Guru jis have also blessed devotees with wishes like these too.

Which Gurus? Can you give evidence instead of just saying you are sure.

Do you know about when Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji was asked to perform miracles, what did they do?

Do you also know Guruji says performing miracles takes one away from the path of God?

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Simran ji, those children vardans that were given to those unfertile couples was because our Sri Guru Sahibs were pleased with their difficult seva and asked them for any wishes they'd like. Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur did not show miracles to those people asking to see miracles because those people did not have sharda or any faith for our religion, they did not practice or even do seva for our religion, those people wanted to see a tamasha which is not Gurmatt, and that is why our Sri Guru Sahibs did not preform those dikhavas. When our Sri Guru Sahib(s) gave child vardhans, they gave it to their devotees of Sri Vaheguru who did seva, and when seva is accepted our Sri Guru Sahib asked what the people who did seva wanted. Do you understand what I am saying ji..?

No I don't understand what you are saying.

Which people are you talking about? Can you give an example please.

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Okay, I will try my best:

Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur Sahib ji refused to show miracles to those people who asked because those people wanted to see a tamasha and they were not believing in Sikhi in any way, they did no seva and just wanted our Sri Guru ji to show a dikhava, to show off. Our Sri Guru ji refused to show miracles because it is against Gurmatt to make a dikhava or tamashas because it helps nobody.

Some people did seva for some of our Sri Guru jis and our Sri Guru ji was happy with their seva towards Sikhi + Sri Vaheguru, so our Sri Guru jis asked for their wish and they asked for a child vardhan because those sevaks were not fertile. Do you see what I am saying now..? When a sevak of our Sri Guru ji pleases our Sri Guru ji then they are rewarded with a wish if they practice our dharm with a satcha soul.

Those people who want to see miracles were rejected because our religion is not about dikhava of powers, our religion is about devotion towards God and not to impress anyone.

Who some people, I would like to know who?? Can you give a link or article where it shows that? I want to see the evidence. Any sakhis?

No I don't understand, obviously otherwise I wouldn't be asking would I.

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