Love Or Lust Confused

[ramghariasingh]

i had a crush on a girl but problem is that I am not sure weather i really love her. what to do i don't undetstand.

[sikhni777]

If you are not sure then it's not love!!

[ramghariasingh]

If you are not sure then it's not love!!

i know i love her but afraid that will she loves me. one more problem is that she is a pure amritdhari and i am a mona. and also there is age diffrence.

[MisterrSingh]

Have you considered the practice of bride kidnapping?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bride_kidnapping

[jkvlondon]

Have you considered the practice of bride kidnapping?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bride_kidnapping

really??? 'you aint no sikh bro ' ...he might be stupid enough to consider it

[jkvlondon]

i had a crush on a girl but problem is that I am not sure weather i really love her. what to do i don't undetstand.

litmus test : would you :

1. stop eating meat , drinking alcohol, grow your kesh

2. learn your banian and take amrit, be a proper khalsa that she deserves

3. Ask for her hand in marriage

or not

if you can do all three levels without resentment or reservation it is probaly love else it's just lust

[singhnihk]

Have you considered the practice of bride kidnapping?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bride_kidnapping

DAFT.

[MisterrSingh]

really??? 'you aint no sikh bro ' ...he might be stupid enough to consider it

I wanted to see if he truly loved the object of his desire.

[sikhni777]

She may be amritdhari but doesn't mind marrying a mona. Take it forward and see where it ends.... else after 20 years you may still be alone regreting.... oh why did I not.... use my guts.

[jkvlondon]

She may be amritdhari but doesn't mind marrying a mona. Take it forward and see where it ends.... else after 20 years you may still be alone regreting.... oh why did I not.... use my guts.

you obviously have no concept of rehit ...an amritdhari person is dedicated heart and soul to Guru ji , why should she break with Guru ji by becoming bemukh just for him? he should up his game because there is no way her folks would sanction this ...get your head out of the clouds biba ji