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What was Guru Ji's rational behind the commandment Sikh daughters should only be given to Sikhs for marriage?


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8 hours ago, pardesanbibbi said:

Same here.  Only a  firmly well grounded Sabat Surat, kakaar wearing Sikh with head on their shoulders, dark brown eyes and hair, and high IQ with ancestoral roots in India will suffice.  Someone whose life is replete with sikhy. My future generations (posterity) are extremely important to me.  It is imperative they become good Sikhs and humans, nothing else matters.

 

 

I admire your resolution, how old are you?  Good luck.

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1 hour ago, pardesanbibbi said:

Same here.  Only a  firmly well grounded Sabat Surat, kakaar wearing Sikh with head on their shoulders, dark brown eyes and hair, and high IQ with ancestoral roots in India will suffice.  Someone whose life is replete with sikhy. My future generations (posterity) are extremely important to me.  It is imperative they become good Sikhs and humans, nothing else matters.

 

 

aww what if you are like my dada ji who had ice blue eyes and reddish brown hair but pure punjabi ? according to your narrow criteria he wouldn't count or anyone like that, like my thaia ji or his eldest son , or grandson . Sikhi is from within not just without the whole picture is important including her/his family influences and personal views .

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1 hour ago, Ranjeet01 said:

It's a shame that JKV has not commented as I think she has proved the exception.

She's a  example of a Sikh woman who has married a non-Sikh and I believe has brought up her children as Sikh.

Maybe more Sikh women should be like JKV.

 

nobody needs more headcases Hehe ... honestly I did nothing just looked hard and passed the whole thing to Guru ji's hand I would have been content to be single and do sewa of panth ... if Guru ji had made it so . Angelo is more sikhi khial than your average person , a real family person who understood that being a sikh is a hard choice and doesn't let up on the kids if they try slacking . In his words 'they will be better christians as Gursikhs, because they will have structure and method to their spiritual life' . He understands our struggles in Punjab and the evil nature of GOI. He's been to Amritsar Harimandir Sahib , Dhubri Sahib , Assam , ChungThan , SIkkim he believes in Guru Sahiban .

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1 hour ago, pavitarsk said:

I have come across many henpecked sikh men with eastern europeans especially with romanians, with zero sikhi in their lives and their kids converting to sullehs, some not even marrying anyone but producing kids all over the place!  Most of these men don't even wear a turban but cover their guttas with a piece of cloth which can do with a good wash!!

 

usually they marry for the gateway EU passport then get comfy ... personally I find such 'sikhs' disgusting as they consider females in such a low light that they are willing to abandon that family to remarry an unsuspecting singhni back home on demand of parents . Marry Once, marry right...live according Guru Pita ji's rules don't be a scum bag . If they are walking around like retards wearing joorda rumals/dorags they need to GROW UP mentally and emotionally before even venturing towards another human being for a relationship.

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It's mainly to increase Sikh community and numbers--so Sikhi could flourish, and even spread far and wide from its base of Punjab.

Its so sad that we have forgotten this message of Guru and become lazy.

I opened a thread recently regarding Sikh demographics, but it was deleted because people here believe that I am a secret Muslim trying to defame Sikhi.

Talk about pigeon closing its eyes in the face of undeniable threat...
 

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