Too many problems

[Lionesswoman]

9 minutes ago, harsharan000 said:

To this your question Guest Gupt Jee, Dhan Dhan Satguru Arjun Dev Maharaj gives us the answer in a couple of verses from His paviter Bani Dukh Bhanjan Sahib.

*First of all He says:

ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਭੇਟਿਆ ਜਿਨਿ ਬਣਤ ਬਣਾਈ

Sathigur Pooraa Bhaettiaa Jin Banath Banaaee

सतिगुरु पूरा भेटिआ जिनि बणत बणाई

I have met the Perfect True Guru, who has done this deed.

*Here He is telling us, that Guru Jee has done His job, of showering His kirpa on us.

 

*Then in this next verse, He says:

ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਅਉਖਧੁ ਦੀਆ ਏਕਾ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਈ

Raam Naam Aoukhadhh Dheeaa Eaekaa Liv Laaee

राम नामु अउखधु दीआ एका लिव लाई

He has given me the medicine of the Lord's Name, and I enshrine love for the One Lord.

 

*Though Satguru Jee is one with Akal Purukh, and is pooran by Himself, but even then, He places Himself as our mirror, and tells us, that when He got the message of Truth from Guru Jee by His apaar kirpa, He meditated on it, He did Simran of that aoukhad Naam, and the result of it was, that He developed and enshrined Love or prem for the Supreme Lord Wahiguru Akal Purukh.

So, here we can clearly see, that Guru Jee is telling us, you complain for not having prem for Him, do not worry and reverse your inner  state, from a empty one, to the full one of His Love, by just doing the bhakti of His Naam Simran.

God bless you.

Sat Sree Akal.

 

 

 

 

Naam Simran and bandgi, good deeds. 

 

Guest gupt, read the writings on this website, www.satnaam.info

 

They give explanations of Gurbani, meditation, naam Simran, bandgi etc, a lot of your questions will be answered in it. 

[simran345]

12 minutes ago, Lionesswoman said:

Naam Simran and bandgi, good deeds. 

 

Guest gupt, read the writings on this website, www.satnaam.info

 

They give explanations of Gurbani, meditation, naam Simran, bandgi etc, a lot of your questions will be answered in it. 

This seems to be a Radha Soami site. They don't believe in Gurmantar for starters, so I won't be looking at that site for anything. 

[Lionesswoman]

15 minutes ago, simran345 said:

This seems to be a Radha Soami site. They don't believe in Gurmantar for starters, so I won't be looking at that site for anything. 

No one asked you to?

[simran345]

Just now, Lionesswoman said:

No one asked you to?

I didn't say anybody did, but what I don't understand is, why are you referring somebody to a site that have their own agenda? 

[jkvlondon]

1 hour ago, Lionesswoman said:

Naam Simran and bandgi, good deeds. 

 

Guest gupt, read the writings on this website, www.satnaam.info

 

They give explanations of Gurbani, meditation, naam Simran, bandgi etc, a lot of your questions will be answered in it. 

and they also are Not counted as SIkhs as they use gurbani to entrap aspirant sikhs to following a living person/s instead of Jug JUg Atal Guru Granth Sahib ji

[Akalifauj]

Have you ever walked into a place where people look different and act differently than you, and felt out of place?  You probably felt like they are judging you.  I have heard it many times from mona on how they feel awkward around a group of Gursikhs.  It has nothing to do with how the Gursikhs are behaving or the conversations but they feel out place because they look different.  Gursikhs build confidence from Gurbani and they project this confidence by their personality.  When you cut your hair, you are making a hair style that is a norm in society.  You dress as everyone else does and now you are not that "odd" person in the room, store, class, mall, sporting event, restaurant, etc. Just another average Jane. The confidence from cutting hair is an illusion you and the people around you have created.  How come these same people uncomfortable around Singhs who are not judging them.  Once they are out of their comfort zone (that accepted look in society is not the norm in a certain place) they feel shy and out of place.  

The above problem is corrected by reading Gurbani daily and throughout the day.  Once you develop a strong inner you, the false confidence from cutting hair will be left behind. It would be not a question of whether to cut hair not but what does Guru want me to do.  And whatever the Guru wants you to do will be carried by you with confidence.  

[Akalifauj]

1 hour ago, Lionesswoman said:

Naam Simran and bandgi, good deeds. 

 

Guest gupt, read the writings on this website, www.satnaam.info

 

They give explanations of Gurbani, meditation, naam Simran, bandgi etc, a lot of your questions will be answered in it. 

Please don't direct people to false bankrupt so called spiritual teachers.  They are lost and don't know the way, how can they direct others to the truth.

[Guest Jacfsing2]

1 hour ago, Lionesswoman said:

www.satnaam.info

The website is Anti-Sikh, (though they are good at being deceptive by trying to put a represenation of the first Guru at the entrance).

[jkvlondon]

discussion of NDEs heaven and hell from gurmat angle :

http://gurmatbibek.com/forum/read.php?3,15842

http://www.wahegurunet.com/hell-is-real

https://www.sikhnet.com/discussion/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=3732

http://www.sikhspirit.com/khalsa/news50.htm

 

and a book on prem de teer (arrows of love):

https://www.scribd.com/document/70255992/Arrows-of-Love-Prem-Dey-Teer-Naam-Net-Book-1

[luckysingh99]

On ‎11‎/‎16‎/‎2016 at 2:17 PM, Guest gupt said:

But I feel like i am leaning towards the Christian religion is because they believe that every other religion is going to hell and I don't want to go to hell, and i like cutting my hair like i struggle to keep it

 

Is that the real reason?  Does Christianity say other religions will go to hell? ....I never knew that!    

What does the hair really have to do with it?  

I'm saying this because I never took steps to go forward telling myself to keep my hair. I just went searching within using the Sikh methods of simran and then bam!!! ....I suddenly had this urge to NOT cut my hair,  I felt a spiritual connection and didn't want to break it. 

You look in the mirror and tell yourself that the hair has to remain cut and styled, but there is also another mirror inside you that you have to find to reflect on. This mirror is the truth and much more powerful that any mirror in the world.

I suggest that you try doing bandgee as suggested by harsharan and lionesswoman. The hair and all other matters will start coming towards you.