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Hi

 

I am in a similar situation myself, similar age and I've found it difficult to find the right guy, mainly because of morals.

 

AIso, I went through a few periods in my life with family etc which made me lose my self confidence and I became basically the opposite of how I used to be. Get your confidence and self belief back, we are Sikhnis of the Guru, there's no time or need to be shy in this world, love and respect yourself, you're great as you are. Try and read the book, the Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N Aaron, I've just started reading it. I bet you're kind hearted and a good soul, and people like that are rare in this world. 

 

Find a guy who is worthy of you. If you're looking for a guy with morals, try and find a man who is spiritual and who holds morals dear to his heart. I've learned that it doesn't matter how desirable a guy may seem to women, if he doesn't strive to be a good person and treat a woman with respect, the rest doesn't matter, don't settle for a bad soul. 

 

And don't give up, I know women in their late 30's and early 40's who are looking so you're not old in comparison. While you're looking, discover yourself, we come alone and we go alone so try and be innately independant and focus on your own life before you marry. 

 

Feel free to make an account and PM me on here if you need to talk. 

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Guest Don't worry

There are a lot of guys in your situation as well.  It's just a matter of finding them.  Trust in God.  Use your free time as a single person to do more paht and stay fit. Once you get married you won't have as much time. 

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