Siblings and their actions

[jkvlondon]

On 08/01/2017 at 7:25 PM, Guest Toofan Singh said:

JKV-London, you are a very smart man! I respect you very much!

You need to spend more time with your sister and tell her the danger and disrespect that this could bring to her in later age. It is not about the family but her own benefit she needs to realize that living in London does not release her from responsibility to respect her family. She can only get away with it for so long.

If your father will get angry knowing all this. You don't want to escalate the situation at this point. You should bring this up to your mother and tell her find a way to ask your father to handle this situation. Getting angry and loosing your family member is not going to help. If she continues, watch her back and continue to help her out. She will realize one day that you care and is looking after her better interests in life. Our lost brothers and sisters are the one who usually deliver when the time comes. They have had experienced the other side already. She may end up following your life style in the near future. don't be mad and don't give up on her!

it's ok I'm not a bloke and I went through serious issues too , and despite my fears I trusted my parents and told them the truth , sure they were hurt but after that they realised just how much I had sacrificed keeping things to myself as opposed to risking my family's future. 
The sister is unrepentant so going softly softly will only give her more time to manipulate, especially if you approach the Mother , it is unfair to push the Mother into the firing line instead of dealing directly by informing both parents so they can present a united front to their daughter. The brother OP is being ignored by the sister so he needs backup of his folks too, he is unexperienced after all of how to move on .

[Guest Star]

Best way to deal wit this is by asking a trusted female to not tell anyone about the situation but have a word with your sister about dangers of grooming, sexeting and revenge porn.

My distant cousin sister foolish took naked pics of herself to send to a boy she liked on instagram he then started to blackmail her for more and got money of her. When she couldnt pay he posted her pics on social media and her family in india found out by facebook posts it was humiliating for them. Then her family beat her up in the uk and she called the cops who took her to womans refuge, and she hasnt come bck home since. They suspect she was groomed by a muslim boy but no one knows the truth.

So best advice is prevention is better than cure. Teach your daughters, sisters and brothers even these pics can destory lives and families. Becareful how you handle this matter as it could make your sis run away.

[Guest YoungAdvice]

I would take her phone message the guy and tell him go back off and tell your sister that you know or a female cousin or friend of hers you know.