What's your opinion of sikhs on dating sites?

[Guest Singha]

As the title states, do you guys think it's okay or is it wrong?  Thanks, confused about this issue

[dallysingh101]

If Sikhs are looking for serious Sikh partners (with view to marriage), it's great idea for those struggling to do this through their own physical contacts. 

If it's just for a bunk up, it's crap. 

But also, I've heard from umpteen apneean who've tried to find a Sikh guy for a husband through such sites, that it is not uncommon for them to get bombarded with messages from prospective sullay from all over the globe, even when they've explicitly stated that they are looking for Sikh guys. 

Some low IQ people (especially certain females) need to be careful of the sites and not forget people can (and do!) pretend they are SIkh when they are not, for various (usually dark) motives. 

[Guest Tony]

On 09/05/2017 at 0:42 AM, Guest Singha said:

As the title states, do you guys think it's okay or is it wrong?  Thanks, confused about this issue

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

[Guest Jacfsing2]

10 hours ago, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

Not every Sikh has lots of contacts with other Sikhs.

[Guest battleaxe]

4 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Not every Sikh has lots of contacts with other Sikhs.

what does that mean?

[Guest Singha]

^yup exactly, other than gw where would you meet them lol

[dallysingh101]

On 5/10/2017 at 3:00 AM, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

People get arranged marriages into some conservative families and can still end up with the type of girl you're talking about.

[Akalifauj]

On 2017-5-9 at 7:00 PM, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

Many of these girls call it.....trying every flavor.  Their official name is something more colorful but why go there when its obvious.

[Guest kkaur]

On 10/5/2017 at 7:30 AM, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

 

Imagine, using a dating site to get to know a potential partner, instead of sleeping with them. Imagine a world where people aren't so judgemental like you.  And yes I have an account on a matrimonial site, and no I don't date. But glad to know what kind of Sikh "boy" I should avoid.

[Guest Jacfsing2]

On 5/10/2017 at 0:54 PM, Guest battleaxe said:

what does that mean?

I do not know if your family is Punjabi/Subcontinental, but to explain the concept, usually an arranged marriage is decided upon a few factors and mostly based on your contacts, which has been how people have found Rishtas. Now we get all that history out of the way let's discuss the now. Most Sikhs sadly don't all live in Sikh-only centers like we used to, so it has become harder to find contacts. The only ways to find a Rishta is either someone helps you or you find it yourself, (this includes love marriage as well). 

Now let's get the person who's parents don't have many contacts and telling him to find a spouse that is also compatible in and they don't live in a Sikh-center: (Punjab), and they need to find a Rishta, it'll be incredibly hard for them.

Exceptions to the contacts rule are:

1. Money. (By money I mean big bank).

2. Visa.

3. Love marriage.

4. Finding someone from a matrimonial site.

5. They also don't have lot's of contacts.

6. Unique Status position.

Again you can only find Rishtas realistically from either you knowing contacts, or you finding contacts. (One or the other), because our culture has a very much marry 2 families instead of just 2 people.