Breaking Amrit, Yes or No?

[Guest GuptAmritdhariGirl]

Vaheguru jee, 

I'm Amritdhari girl who has fallen for a non-amritdhari (he is a very knowledgeable Sikh who has amazing spiritual knowledge). We are not married but we have done some silly sexual things. *Edited*

Have I broken Amrit..? I feel so crappy at the moment and need some advice. 

Please forgive me! 

[Guest Jacfsing2]

6 hours ago, Guest GuptAmritdhariGirl said:

We are not married but we have done some silly sexual things. *Edited

The 4 Kurehits are Halal, Haram, Hukka, and Hajamat (Kesh di Beadbi) sexual relations with another person than your spouse is Haram.

[Singh1989]

Um... It depends on how far the silly sexual thing went. Kissing and sexual intercourse, is where germs are being being shared. Sikhs do not give/ take jooth when it comes to food.

So, did you guys kiss? Did he insert himself into you?? If yes to one or both then go pesh!

ANY AMRITDHARI READING THIS! Please do not go now thinking "it ok to do minor sexual stuff b4 marriage!" This is kaam and trishna (contentment) will certainly NOT be fulfilled!

[prince22gs]

I think yes you have broken.

Start again today, getting involved sexually is only permitted after marriage(Lawfully wedding marriage).

 

Don't let Kaam (Lust) sway you into these wrong directions. LORD knows you from inside

Pekhatt Sunatt sadaa hn Sangee, Main moorakh janiya doori re.

 

So next time keep distance and convey your this message to your boy to keep distance too, you are supposed to wait till Marriage. After that day you are allowed.

 

Till then Strict No No

 

I also said this thing clearly to my girl too and she being a believer accepted this with great respect ?

Rules are rules, dont let kaam destroy your life anymore.

[Guest Ajeet Singh]

I did same thing but she was not even sikh and then she left me... kam is very bad thing. Need to retake amrit. That's my advice but I did not retake.

[Wicked Warrior]

On 7/3/2017 at 4:47 AM, Guest GuptAmritdhariGirl said:

he is a very knowledgeable Sikh who has amazing spiritual knowledge

Then why was he not aware of kaam and its danger? Why did he not stop himself or yourself from doing the wrong thing? 

Remember that the only true love is for the Lord and all other love is false. 

[BhForce]

6 hours ago, Guest Ajeet Singh said:

I did same thing but she was not even sikh and then she left me... kam is very bad thing. Need to retake amrit. That's my advice but I did not retake.

Thanks for sharing. Everybody out there take heed.

[BhForce]

47 minutes ago, Wicked Warrior said:

Then why was he not aware of kaam and its danger? Why did he not stop himself or yourself from doing the wrong thing? 

Remember that the only true love is for the Lord and all other love is false. 

Exactly. There are a much of these "spiritual" people who can't even keep it in their pants. They are not truly spiritual at all. 

Spiritual means "in relation to the spirit". These people are all about the pleasures of the body.

[MisterrSingh]

53 minutes ago, Wicked Warrior said:

Then why was he not aware of kaam and its danger? Why did he not stop himself or yourself from doing the wrong thing? 

Remember that the only true love is for the Lord and all other love is false. 

Probably dazzled her with pseudo-spirituality and dreamy sounding concepts. They don't truly understand any of it. It's just a very effective way of ensnaring the gullible or people who are desperate for some knowledge or a spiritual experience.

[Guest guest]

whether you have broken it or not, it is not appropriate for an Amritdhari- male or female- to even touch another person sexually (except marriage partner and  even then only when both parties consent).

either way, you need to reflect on being an Amritdhari, what it means, what is appropriate behaviour and way of thinking for an Amritdhari. what your duties as one are etc.

you also need to wise up to human nature, your own mind's weaknesses, the deceptive nature of others, etc for your own good and protection

he has 'vast knowledge' but couldn't control his lust around you?  or didn't even know it was inappropriate behaviour?  some people are all talk...