Singh's finding it hard to find life partners.

[TinnkerBell]

25 minutes ago, BhForce said:

I'd never say that a Sikh should cut his hair, bro.

But for those who already are, I have to admit that they would want to marry a mona/moni.

Sad, but reality.

Bhforce bai , its all done from girls side, her brother and father came to my home yesterday and did all enquiries and they are all satisfying with me and my family’s reputation. Now they asked us to come and meet their daughter in a Gurudwara sahib. Thats why I was asking you guys what kind of questions you asked your current wife when you met her the first time. Also she is 5 yrs younger to me that means she might have some different mindset than me right

[BhForce]

35 minutes ago, TinnkerBell said:

Bhforce bai , its all done from girls side, her brother and father came to my home yesterday and did all enquiries and they are all satisfying with me and my family’s reputation. Now they asked us to come and meet their daughter in a Gurudwara sahib. Thats why I was asking you guys what kind of questions you asked your current wife when you met her the first time. Also she is 5 yrs younger to me that means she might have some different mindset than me right

You should ensure that she is at the same level of Sikhism as you, whatever that is.

[TinnkerBell]

50 minutes ago, BhForce said:

You should ensure that she is at the same level of Sikhism as you, whatever that is.

And how can I find out that ?

[mahandulai]

On ‎11‎/‎20‎/‎2017 at 4:49 PM, Guest Singh said:

Hi,

This has probably been discussed before but it's something I can't really wrap my head around. I'm a singh with full beard and have cousins who are the same, we are finding it difficult to find Sikh girls as life partners. The ones I've been introduced to have a problem with me not cutting my beard and being vegetarian etc... few have asked me if I would cut my beard etc... this coming from supposedly Sikh girls and it's quite disgraceful. 

I've had more interest from girls who are not Sikh...i.e Gujarati, English girls etc.. who don't seem to care about me being a full singh, it's raising questions in my head about the future of Sikhi as a whole, our Sikh girls are moving away from our faith/traditions and adopting western values and ways above all. One of my cousins got fed up and cut his beard in the hopes to be more 'accepted', but I feel this is the wrong choice to make. I'd be lying if I said the thought didn't cross my mind but I don't want to move away from Sikhi just to find a wife, but it seems like our Sikh girls are. 

 

Suppose this is more of a rant than a question as such. 

maybe you need to consider the non-Indians, all are people in the end.

[TinnkerBell]

On 1/29/2019 at 3:07 PM, mahandulai said:

maybe you need to consider the non-Indians, all are people in the end.

Mahandulai, o na bai ji

apa nu te punjaban hi theek aa

[puzzled]

I just turned 26 last month and now my parents are pesting me everyday to find a girl lol   

For the last 3 week's they been bringing it up everyday 

I don't know any Punjabi girl   how can I just find someone like that lol

They won't accept a non Punjabi girl  

They prefer if I find someone myself rather than them finding someone which is great 

I think I might do matha tek and ask baba ji to make things move a bit faster and get me and my future wife to meet each other soon.  haha! 

[Guest DATING POLICE JIHADI]

21 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I just turned 26 last month and now my parents are pesting me everyday to find a girl lol   

For the last 3 week's they been bringing it up everyday 

I don't know any Punjabi girl   how can I just find someone like that lol

They won't accept a non Punjabi girl  

They prefer if I find someone myself rather than them finding someone which is great 

I think I might do matha tek and ask baba ji to make things move a bit faster and get me and my future wife to meet each other soon.  haha! 

DATING IS HARAM

[TinnkerBell]

27 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I just turned 26 last month and now my parents are pesting me everyday to find a girl lol   

For the last 3 week's they been bringing it up everyday 

I don't know any Punjabi girl   how can I just find someone like that lol

They won't accept a non Punjabi girl  

They prefer if I find someone myself rather than them finding someone which is great 

I think I might do matha tek and ask baba ji to make things move a bit faster and get me and my future wife to meet each other soon.  haha! 

You r 26, I thought u to be much younger than me, i am 29.

i met the girl and her parents today, everything went fine. Will move forward.

[puzzled]

36 minutes ago, TinnkerBell said:

You r 26, I thought u to be much younger than me, i am 29.

i met the girl and her parents today, everything went fine. Will move forward.

Haha yeah I'm 26 now 

That's good that it went fine, let us know when the wedding is lol 

[MichaelJackson]

1 minute ago, puzzled said:

Haha yeah I'm 26 now 

That's good that it went fine, let us know when the wedding is lol 

Yes, please do! I have something special in mind for the new couple.