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On 3/13/2019 at 1:59 PM, Guest paapiman said:

But Sikhi is about quality rather than quantity. It is better Amritdhari's are not polluted by jhoot or non-Amritdhari spouses

But the Amritdhari's left unmarried and childless can become bahingams and join Dera's as more are doing each year

or they could get jobs and do some honest work while remaining celibate?

since when were ashrams, sorry, 'deras' part of sikhism?

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On 3/13/2019 at 1:59 PM, Guest paapiman said:

But the Amritdhari's left unmarried and childless can become bahingams and join Dera's as more are doing each year

shouldn't an amrit dhari join a Dal anyway for their training in how to be amrit dhari (which is missing from many amrit dharis now)

I don't think a Sant dera has the correct training for amrit dhri as opposed to a dal or Shauni which does.

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On ‎3‎/‎12‎/‎2019 at 2:50 PM, Guest jigsaw_puzzled_singh said:

? You just can't stop can you Dallysingh, you crazy nutjob ?

 

 

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This is the best post on the forum!

Of course it is Triggered. Of course it is. But....on a forum populated largely by very young children and fat, middle aged pot-bellied 50 year old sad and lonely men pretending to be young East End gangsters(Dallysingh100 :) ) good humour will always be the first casualty.

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On 3/22/2019 at 4:51 AM, Guest guest said:

medical test?  lol.

btw, from what i understand, that only applies to horse riding.  and how many woman are 'athelet girls'?  you are very naive.

you had to go through 600 potential matches to find the right match and yet you say you "had a good experience"?

I didn’t said what u understand bai ji

 

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On 3/26/2019 at 8:52 PM, TinnkerBell said:

I didn’t said what u understand bai ji

 

sorry for the last comment on your experience.  you seem like a good person.

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I find this quite surprising but I've found that it hasn't been an easy journey trying to find someone to marry as an Amritdhari females most of the amritdhari guys I know would prefer to marry non-amritdhari girls. It's funny really! I feel like I should be putting an ad out like 'Where's all the amritdhari guys gone- do you still exist?!" Saying this though I keep my kesh (including facial hair) and this isn't accepted by most amritdhari guys I don't see why but then clearly if females have a problem with guys facial hair then guys are bound to be similar as well. I bit of an inconvenience really but I suppose it is all down to your fate/kismet whatever you want to call it.

I don't think anyone should have to change themselves just to get married you might up doing that your whole life and your future partner might never be happy so you should do what makes you happy without having to compromise your faith and beliefs. 

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