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But its not that different for some people in their 20s when I was in school I wasn't allowed to talk to girls lol   so when ever I used to walk home with a girl she would walk like 2 meters in front of me and we would talk like that haha! Or just not use the main roads but walk home through the back roads lol  many people in their 20s were not allowed to have that contact with girls.

But I'm pretty sure we had it easier than people in their 30s  things sound a lot more stricter back then 

Don't know what things are like for the currents teens but I doubt much has changed lol 

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On 3/8/2019 at 1:56 PM, MisterrSingh said:

Secondly, there IS an issue of Singhs being in a second tier of appeal (broadly speaking), but from my observations this trend rears its head when the Singhs are aiming for the type of girl that is undisputably out of their league or they're pushing for a girl who any honourable and decent young man should not "wife-up." That's an unpopular and uncomfortable truth. Too much ego from some Singhs who want the "goods" even though those so-called goods are arguably the worse thing that could ever happen to them. 

what makes these girls 'out of their league'? is it just the external 'beauty' after the make-ups been painted on? or the 'better' career? money?

these girls spend more time searching and analyzing the perfect male personality that suits their wants and needs than they do working on their own and thats why their personalities happen to be crap - empty, shallow and very unsophisticated....

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23 minutes ago, GuestSingh said:

what makes these girls 'out of their league'? is it just the external 'beauty' after the make-ups been painted on? or the 'better' career? money?

these girls spend more time searching and analyzing the perfect male personality that suits their wants and needs than they do working on their own and thats why their personalities happen to be crap - empty, shallow and very unsophisticated....

Absolutely, I agree. Objectively, if a person is being deadly honest, there is a hierarchy of looks. Yes, we can argue about how society has arrived at this hierarchy, and which factors have informed rankings, etc. But then if it's that's obvious, why are these girls still pursued? So, it is the physical beauty of these women that overrides all other things in the mind of the guys we're referring to. Aren't Sikhs supposed to be at least inching towards the idea of seeing beyond the physical that the rest of the world is lost in?

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3 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

Absolutely, I agree. Objectively, if a person is being deadly honest, there is a hierarchy of looks. Yes, we can argue about how society has arrived at this hierarchy, and which factors have informed rankings, etc. But then if it's that's obvious, why are these girls still pursued? So, it is the physical beauty of these women that overrides all other things in the mind of the guys we're referring to. Aren't Sikhs supposed to be at least inching towards the idea of seeing beyond the physical that the rest of the world is lost in?

big eyes, wide smile and maybe thick lips tends to be the 'winning formula' for most? but at the same time these girls know if theyre lacking in something then any face-paint will help to accentuate other features and quickly change most minds - minds that were already weak cuz those first opinions/interest soon changed without even thinking about personal ideals or certain traits...

whenever the eyes automatically divert to something i.e. a potential partner, without even thinking, the questions that race in my mind is 'whats she really like', 'whats she done or does now', 'is she true/worthy or just false/bad' etc. - after u quickly recollect the 'true stories', u can get some sorta answer just by the face and eyes, especially the eyes if theyre 'doey' - its like the more they widen/dilate, the more guilty or even promiscuous they seem? maybe not always the case but u can see the obvious with ones who think theyre 'hot stuff' - automatic turn-off and any thoughts/interest soon disappear....

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On 3/9/2019 at 1:17 AM, puzzled said:

But its not that different for some people in their 20s when I was in school I wasn't allowed to talk to girls lol   so when ever I used to walk home with a girl she would walk like 2 meters in front of me and we would talk like that haha! Or just not use the main roads but walk home through the back roads lol  many people in their 20s were not allowed to have that contact with girls.

But I'm pretty sure we had it easier than people in their 30s  things sound a lot more stricter back then 

Don't know what things are like for the currents teens but I doubt much has changed lol 

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On 3/8/2019 at 7:12 PM, Guest jigsaw_puzzled_singh said:

Bit excessive innit ?😮

What percentage did you say 'no' to and how many said 'no' to you ?

 

My kids are only little but if, when they grow up. they decide to go though this traditional method I will give them this one sound advice when it comes to these introductions to girls at people's houses:

  • When the girl walks in to the room does she plod or does she glide ? The one that glides is the one.
  • At your one to one chat with her and you ask her what she thinks look out for the one says she's happy but is happy with what her elders say. She's the one.

What mean plod and glide ?

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4 hours ago, TinnkerBell said:

What mean plod and glide ?

Plod= ruk ruk ke walk karna. Pair kteesh ki turna. Walk slowly and drag feet.

Glide= rumke rumke turna. Walk nicely as if floating.

Also you can use google to fibd the meaning of any word. Just type in 'define plod'

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On 3/8/2019 at 2:22 PM, puzzled said:

 Note how a lot of the Punjabi women married to white men are normally not that pretty or dark skinned or in their 30s!  

Two examples 

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/geeta-sidhu-robb ; https://www.standard.co.uk/news/how-mother-built-her-life-up-again-from-ruin-to-riches-6852084.html

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2011/10/cv-tina-daheley.shtml

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3 hours ago, Premi5 said:

The likes of Geeta Sidhu left her husband after the fortune was lost. 

What a wonderful woman! 

Tina Daheley is in the media. Her social circle is middle class goreh. 

What you guys have to realise is that woman marry up.(The term is called hypergamy )

These types of woman will not consider a man of their own ethnicity as it would be beneath them.

Marrying a gorah is an upgrade. 

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2 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

 

What you guys have to realise is that woman marry up.(The term is called hypergamy )

Do you think all the white women who have kids with black men in the UK consider it marrying/'parenting' up?

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16 minutes ago, Premi5 said:

Do you think all the white women who have kids with black men in the UK consider it marrying/'parenting' up?

The majority of white women who have kids with black guys in the UK are not marrying them.

These type of white women are predominantly on welfare.

Women have a dual sexual strategy

:to have a kid with the most alpha male that they can find

:to have someone to provide for them.

Some women cannot find these two strategies in one man.

In the case of these type of white women, their provisioner is big daddy government. 

 

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27 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

The majority of white women who have kids with black guys in the UK are not marrying them.

These type of white women are predominantly on welfare.

Women have a dual sexual strategy

:to have a kid with the most alpha male that they can find

:to have someone to provide for them.

Some women cannot find these two strategies in one man.

In the case of these type of white women, their provisioner is big daddy government. 

 

Nowadays I'm seeing that some women like to sort of collect children of different hues. I see some gorian with a white kid, an obviously half black one....and sometimes they are eyeing you up in the supermarket like they want to add a half brown one to the collection....lol

 

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7 hours ago, Not2Cool2Argue said:

Plod= ruk ruk ke walk karna. Pair kteesh ki turna. Walk slowly and drag feet.

Glide= rumke rumke turna. Walk nicely as if floating.

Also you can use google to fibd the meaning of any word. Just type in 'define plod'

Thanks for explaining bai jee 🙏

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On 3/6/2019 at 11:44 PM, Guest Amritdhari said:

So what will happen to all the Amritdhari Singhs in Punjab the future?

They are already more of them than corresponding women. Gender ratio in Punjab on top of that making things worse!

Then on top of that more females going abroad to study and marrying NRI's.

Meaning that no way can all Amritdhari Singh's in Punjab find local Amritdhari women!

Solutions:

1. We need to stop hating on Gursikhs marrying non-Amritdhari or non-Punjabi women!

2. We should stop assuming that the Khalsa Panth will die out because of non-Amritdhari spouses or non-Punjabi's!

(If someone is so weak that a spouse weakens their commitment to Sikhi then they clearly had weak commitment to begin with)

Especially when Muslim men and groomers who marry non-Muslim women all retain 100% loyalty to Islam in 99% of cases!

 

And what about the lack of Sikh men that all the west Sikh guys getting married to goriah or going back to Punjab create too.

On 3/8/2019 at 2:22 PM, puzzled said:

Note how a lot of the Punjabi women married to white men are normally not that pretty or dark skinned or in their 30s!  Women get it hard too

I really don't understand this impression that some people create that there are 1000s of singhs queing up struggling to get married. 

It's like every singh is dying unmarried 

I really p1sses me off when some singhs pull out the victim card for everything!  It's like they view everything in a negative way 

Punjabi's have an inferiority complex (self-internalised racism) when it comes to dark skin. Gorah skin color is considered inferior to dark-skinned Indians. And that's despite that being in opposition to Gurmat with the Punj Piare being from South India, Gujarat, Orissa etc where folks are pretty dark and most of the Khalsa Panth being very dark skinned in comparison to goreh.

So when some dark skinned girls are shunned by their own community in the West, why do we scratch our heads as to why they are marrrying goreh who think of dark skin as "exotic" instead of inferior.

All Singhs are not dying unmarried but at least 20% of Sikhs born in the West must be struggling to get married in their 30's and 40's.

I think it's Sikh guys struggling most in Punjab but in the west I'd say it is women struggling most due to so many guys marrying goriah or going back to Punjab. But Amritdhari Singhs are probably an exception in the West as there are more of them compared to Amritdhari Singhnian. And if Amritdhari's restrict themselves of their own accord then it's a demographic recipe for disaster. 

So all in all we need to quit hating on our own people and stop hating dark skin but still be accepting of mixed background couples so long as everybody regardless of who they marry realises the vital importance of connecting all children to Sikhi and the community.

 

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10 hours ago, Premi5 said:

Those women aren't even attractive in indian standards let a lone Punjabi standards. They don't even remotely look Punjabi!   But that's what a lot of Punjabi women married to white men look like! 

 

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