Leave everything and stay at Darbar Sahib?

[MisterrSingh]

3 hours ago, S1ngh said:

There should be no divorce at all unless it is the case of abuse or cheating. 

And attempted murder, lol.

[S4NGH]

You have your reasons for doing what you're doing, I highly doubt any of us could comprehend your situation. But running away from your problems will not solve anything. By all means take a break, go to Darbar Sahib, reset your spiritual state. Do an ardas, ask for guidance. Beg for help. I'd hate to be in your shoes. But who knows what's around the corner? I won't sit here judging you. Maharaj will resolve your affairs. I wish you luck.

[Guest Haridas]

On 21/12/2017 at 11:28 PM, Singh123456777 said:

You will not find sanctuary in the house of the guru, especially for breaking the heart of somebody who is not at fault here.

who are we to say that?  

Guru ji always gives shelter.  God is kind beyond measure.

 

[Guest guest]

On 20/12/2017 at 9:14 PM, Guest DeepikaKaur1 said:

I dont want to hurt my Family.

I was married to an man, but i dont love him. I am in love with someone else. But I dont want to hurt my family by telling them

that I want to divorce. Thats why I thought i want to go to Darbar Sahib and stay there for a while. I will tell my Family that i am going to another country for 

a job. Is this correct? Is it ppossible to stay at Darbar Sahibb? 

telling lies is a silly idea.  stop running away from your problems and just tell them the truth.  i think that truth is more important than 'feelings'.

[Guest Haridas]

On 22/12/2017 at 12:54 AM, BhForce said:

Are saying that she should tell her family that she wants a divorce? Extremely bad advice.

It would be fine to say to her family and husband that she wants to go to Harimandir Sahib for a while (though, not for a divorce).

If someone says, "Why go alone?", she can respond with this tuk:

ਕਬੀਰ ਸਾਧੂ ਕਉ ਮਿਲਨੇ ਜਾਈਐ ਸਾਥਿ ਨ ਲੀਜੈ ਕੋਇ ॥ Kabeer Saadhhoo Ko Milanae Jaaeeai Saathh N Leejai Koe ||. Kabeer, go out to meet the holy man; do not take anyone else with you. ਸਲੋਕਕਬੀਰ ਜੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) (੧੧੬):੧ - ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੭੦

It is bad advice to tell the truth?

Also, using Gurbani saloks 'opportunistically' as you advise is what tou consider good advice?  

What exactly are your priorities in life?  being a good, honest person, or manipulating people for your own devices and desires?

Do you even know the context of that Gurbani Salok you are quoting?  Or you have just taken one line and applied what you want it to mean?

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Guest Haridas said:

who are we to say that?  

Guru ji always gives shelter.  God is kind beyond measure.

 

And why would guru give sanctuary to a person who is destroying two families for lust? Please read charitarpakhyan

[Guest Kaur 2]

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25 minutes ago, Singh123456777 said:

And why would guru give sanctuary to a person who is destroying two families for lust? Please read Charitropakhyan

I have to say, I agree with you on this one. Why would Guru Ji support someone doing the wrong thing? Asking for forgiveness is another matter and Guru Ji is forgiving but Guru Ji won't support anyone doing something wrong. Guru Ji fought for righteousness.

VJKK VJKF

[Guest]

49 minutes ago, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

I have to say, I agree with you on this one. Why would Guru Ji support someone doing the wrong thing? Asking for forgiveness is another matter and Guru Ji is forgiving but Guru Ji won't support anyone doing something wrong. Guru Ji fought for righteousness.

VJKK VJKF

Exactly