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Hindu devte coming into my dad??


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1 hour ago, Akalifauj said:

 

You are so easy to trigger its beyond belief. The sheer idiocy of your statement to suggest that all of us somehow worship Durga because...wait for it....we're not chastising her, is beyond moronic. Anyone here can atest to the fact that I vehemently oppose the worship of any Devta (please refer to my numerous arguments with Preeto) .

You can say we're rooted in the three gunas all you want but you're just as trapped as we are. Funnily enough the likes of Durga have done some adharmic things but overall they did immense seva for Akaal Purkh as well, at his wishes of course.

What have you done with your life? Slayed a demon? reduced sins in the world? I bet you'd pee your pants at the mere sight of a weapon being pulled on you. you're sitting here getting triggered over something so simple a child could understand it, because lets face it, people that have had actual Darshan of Devta tend to be more pious and pure. OP's dad clearly isn't.  

Child, rather than stating the obvious (that all of us, including you) that we're trapped in the 3 Gunas, maybe give proper advice. If Devtas were totally bad (and yes I am aware they have error-ed like the rest of us) then they certainly wouldnt be appearing in the presence of beings likes Sant Baba Nand Singh Ji.

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2 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

mrdoaba nitpicks

It's MrDoaba not "mrdoaba".

2 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

They are actually trying to flex when they got nothing to show. 

 

OMG.jpg

 

OMG is that....that's.....Shiv Ji, Parvati, AND Ganesh!!! And is that a Kara???!!!

Captured the family portrait just for you. :)

Best call the Rehat Police...

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On 03/01/2018 at 9:01 PM, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

I can totally understand how you feel. My whole family believe in devi/devte and they have had a puja done quite a few times in the house. Then because I am a child I am forced to participate and inside me my heart is breaking because I know that idol worship is wrong. However, me and my siblings (me, my 2 brothers and my sister) don't believe in it. When stuff like that is going on then we exchange glances and we feel each others pain. The adults however, believe in all of it and make us believe it too. Once when I sat down and spoke to my mum about how I felt doing all of this stuff she called me racist. I felt so bad because she didn't understand where I came from. I always dread raksha bandhan because I forced to tie that stupid string on my brothers. I don't need my brothers protection when I have Guru Ji's Shastar by my side all the time. Once I showed my mum pangti's about where gurbani tells us about idol worship and then she got angry and told me that she is going to buy me a gutka that doesn't have meanings. The point is that if the adults don't tell us kids true sikhi then how will we be able to live a gursikhi jeevan. I understand you when you talk about devte etc. The point is that shouldn't we be worshipping the One Creator who made those devte? Even when my mum does Karva Chauth me and my sister say straight up that when we get older we aren't going to fast. I understand your feelings and this has been bugging me for AGES. It feels so good to finally let it out.  (y)

VJKK VJKF

Were not forced to do anything. 

Guru Gobind Jis infant sons were being forced into converting Islam but they refused. They were killed standing up for their beliefs and freedom of choice. 

I believed in what I wanted when I was younger. I was called a rebel child by alot of people. But at least I was free. 

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On 02/01/2018 at 2:04 AM, Guest Khalsa said:

I come from a punjabi sikh “jatt” family and  from a young age and even up until now my grandfather and my dad believe in Hindu gods and at my babas home we have guru Nanak dev ji pic next to shiva and balak naath. I know confusing. Whenever we go India we not only go to gurdware but also the mountains of the devte like naina devi near anandpur sahib.

My mum had a hard time once she was married. She came into England to get married at 19 and ever since then my dad used to physically abuse her. He would often come home drunk and hit my mum for not making food or staying up to keep his company even though she had work at 5 am. She suffered this abuse only because she wanted me and my older brother to have a mother figure in our lives. When I was about 8 my father tried to burn my mums hair and from then on she called the police and chose to divorce my dad. I went with my mum but my grandparents took my older brother from my mum and kept him to themselves. 

The abuse didn’t stop there. My mum would come and try to get my older brother back but she would get shoved and pushed by my chacha and even my bibi. I even remember my chacha spitting on my mums face. 

Ok so reading this do u think that my dad or chacha would have a devta come into him and bless everyone. A person that drinks eats meat and abuses his wife. He also has a lot of krodh and gambles a lot. 

For me and my brother my mum came back to this terriable family and she isn’t suffereimg abuse from my family as me ad brother are older, but once my dad hit my mums arm And me and my brother put my dad in A and E. Why didn’t he get the spirit of chandi then to come a defend him?

My mum has been through so much because of my dad, how can he be blessed with such a thing. I have seen this spirit in himself and all he does is shake his head, stick his tounge out and make noise. 

My mum japs naam a lot and even though she is a Radha Soami, it’s because of her I’m a amritdhari sikh today at 17, I took Amrit at the age of 12 and the only person that backed me to take Amrit and drove me 3 hours to London for the Amrit sanchar was my mum. She would sing shabads to me before going to bed and tell me ithihaas of shaheeds and she would always say guru ji loves us very much, she also attendeds the gurdwara and does seva. She has completed a medical degree and my brother is also doing his now at a top uni (and daas is completing his a levels to join them!), my grandparents say it’s because of the devte in my dad but I think it’s because of maharajis and my MUMs kirpa. She would always pray that we won’t end up like my dad or baba (he also used to hit my bibi). It looks like my mum has been blessed not my dad who says he has dreams of durga ji talking to him and saying everything’s going to be ok. Also to get my mum back when she was divorced he would go to all of these babay and offer money and I even think he did some wired stuff as he used to take my mums pic and put a tilk and stuff on it. But my mum never came back because of that BS she came for me and my brother as sheknew we were struggling and she took my brother from failing his exams to starting a medical degree, again something my dad says his devte in him did.

So as a amritdhari, should I believe this? Do u believe this?

 

Yeh my dad was physically abusive and horrible when I was young aswell. 

Maybe he's changed or maybe he hasn't. 

Let him believe what he wants to and you believe what u want to believe. Forgive him but be wise in who you choose as Company. 

Focus on your own life. If you're still living in his house and he's still abusive, report him. Don't beat him up don't Lower yourself 

God bless you

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