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32 minutes ago, TigerForce1 said:

Too much ‘Krodh’ will your destroy your soul.  You should do breathing exercises and do lots of naam simran.  This much nindia, hatred and jealousy is not the way of a Khalsa.  

:hairan: Uugh ?  Show me krodh and show me anger ?  I merely stated a widely held belief about someone.  Is it because my font was in black and size 11 font that you sensed anger ?  :hairan:

Seriously dude....he ain;t my son, dad or brother that would bring personal feelings into it. Lighten up   :ehhh:....He's a politician in the public eye and both me and you are members of the public. Politicians rely on and feed on the public's ignorance and inferiority and the public have a duty to always hold them to account and bring them back down to earth. Seriously, how on earth do you start dreaming 'anger' and 'krodh' into this whole thing ? :hairan:

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11 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

somebody should explain to the two of them that amritdhari sikhs should also have likewise spouses irregardless of gender of amritdhari person . As far as his cringeworthy proposal vid shows (released today ) she shaves her pits, does her eyebrows, trims her hair also and probably her legs as she is in the phashion trade.

Never mind about her armpits, what about when you were dating a Brazilian non sikh boyfriend before you converted him and married him? Why was that OK but this is not?

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11 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

somebody should explain to the two of them that amritdhari sikhs should also have likewise spouses irregardless of gender of amritdhari person .

Does that include you too?

In an earlier forum, you described your husband as:

"He is  a sikh but is not at the point of amrit because of his parents interference/emotional blackmail which Guru kirpa is lessening as the truth of their natures is coming out .I am waiting for him ."

So how come you didn't marry an amridhari? Why are you declaring that amridhari should only marry an amridhari when you ignored that and chose to convert a Brazilian Christian instead?

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42 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

Jagsaw.....dude...you need some help man. 

Naam

Bhang

Water

Repeat until in control of yourself. 

I'm worried for you. For real. 

If you 'worry' for someone for saying maryada for amritdharis should be followed by amritdharis you seriously have some 'worrying' problems.  If you 'worry' for someone putting into writing opinions on a discussion forum which is designed as a platform for opinions to be shared on a written basis your 'worrying' problem is even more problematic that I initially thought.

'Worrying' is something a parent should do when their child is ill in hospital. It is something a father should do when not able to pay the household bills on time. When a grown man or woman 'worries' at the sight of opinions and facts being expressed in writing that is a sign of deep need for some type of psychotherapy. I would suggest you seek out that help sooner rather than later as this type of mental tension can quickly manifest itself as physical tension. There is help available out there and you should not feel stigmatized and embarrassed about seeking it.

In essence, what you have, my friend, is a particular and rather peculiar form of  Allodoxphobia. Within this context, the sight of other people expressing their own opinions frightens you. This fear of an 'opinion' being expressed provokes a reaction in you typical of all fears in that it makes you become defensive and when people become defensive they tend to lash out at the person expressing the opinion. It is fear that drives this psychological state and the key of course is to overcome it. It can work both ways of course as I'm probably a bit too much at the opposite end of it in the sense that I absolutely adore reading other people's opinions because I like the way it gets me thinking more deeply about a particular subject matter and also helps me to become more empathetic...or at least understand that there are opposing viewpoints on virtually every subject matter. I also particularly like those posters on this forum that deploy a Socratic approach to what they write, in that they pose hard-hitting questions and opinions with the objective of provoking the reader into some reflective analysis of the issues being discussed. Of course, I fully understand that those already overcome with a fear of opinions will not be positively embracing of the Socratic approach but as I said in the beginning I am understanding and supporting of everyone's emotional and mental needs and there is help available out there to overcome that fear. I truly wish you all the best in that but most importantly please remember that there is no stigma attached, i.e as the Khalsa know, there is no fear.

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12 hours ago, Guest London jwaan said:

Never mind about her armpits, what about when you were dating a Brazilian non sikh boyfriend before you converted him and married him? Why was that OK but this is not?

I didn't date him ... but like a broken record you keep repeating the same old stuff...

I was aware of my status and how it would affect another and I am not big on lying to anyone  so I didn't even try.

No doubt there are many girls who are not as scrupulous and pose as gursikhs and do roma di beadbhi but then make out that they never do that  and marry amritdhari husbands who are not aware of the deceit which affects them too (patit marrying a gursikh).

 

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