Is it mainly Singh's who complain over Jathebandian?

[Guest]

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I have a question.

Is it mainly Singh's who complain over Maryada and Jathebandian?

Do Singhni's also engage in these type of conversations?

 

(Not being sexist or stereotypical or anything, just out of curiosity. I mainly see Singh's get involved in this type of stuff)

[Damdamitaksaal84]

Yes mainly it is but now females judge who they want to get married by looking at what jathebandi they are from I have seen this happen a lot but it is mainly males Who complain about jathebandi which they shouldn't we should recognize everyone as one not what jathebandi they follow or caste.

[ipledgeblue]

1 hour ago, Damdamitaksaal84 said:

Yes mainly it is but now females judge who they want to get married by looking at what jathebandi they are from I have seen this happen a lot but it is mainly males Who complain about jathebandi which they shouldn't we should recognize everyone as one not what jathebandi they follow or caste.

if we recognize everyone as one will everyone be ready to follow shastar rehit and other rehitnamas that are not watered down by jathebandis?

caste shouldn't matter and if you're in shouni or dal then everyone is following same rehit.  But when people live in houses and pinds and mingling with non-amritdhari relatives then they are usually following watered down rehit or following some aspects of family culture as they have to live inside civilisation.

[californiasardar1]

This whole jathabandi nonsense has had a negative impact on Sikhi, and I wish we would do away with it.

[Kira]

3 hours ago, californiasardar1 said:

This whole jathabandi nonsense has had a negative impact on Sikhi, and I wish we would do away with it.

people need to stop having WWA matches with rehits imo.