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Vaheguru jio I have an issue. I'm a bibi who has a another friend obv another bibi. We were both about to get and get blessed with amrit and then a few months before she fell off the path and now she's doing stupid kinds of things. Now she saying she wants to take amrit but only when she's ready and I'm thinking in my head like how are you ever gonna be ready if you're not doing anything towards it and I really don't understand her. I really need your help here what do I do I need her to take amrit with me I've done ardaas and everything help me. 

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On 5/15/2018 at 9:05 AM, Guest sangat said:

Vaheguru jio I have an issue. I'm a bibi who has a another friend obv another bibi. We were both about to get and get blessed with amrit and then a few months before she fell off the path and now she's doing stupid kinds of things. Now she saying she wants to take amrit but only when she's ready and I'm thinking in my head like how are you ever gonna be ready if you're not doing anything towards it and I really don't understand her. I really need your help here what do I do I need her to take amrit with me I've done ardaas and everything help me. 

best you can do is be the best sikh yourself and just do ardas , this is all Akal Purakh's khel if she has karam she will wake up and get back on track , leave it to Guru ji

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On 5/15/2018 at 2:35 PM, Guest sangat said:

Vaheguru jio I have an issue. I'm a bibi who has a another friend obv another bibi. We were both about to get and get blessed with amrit and then a few months before she fell off the path and now she's doing stupid kinds of things.

Everybody has their own path:

ਕਰਮੀ ਆਪੋ ਆਪਣੀ ਕੇ ਨੇੜੈ ਕੇ ਦੂਰਿ ॥

Karamee Aapo Aapanee Kae Naerrai Kae Dhoor ||

According to their own actions, some are drawn closer, and some are driven farther away.

ਜਪੁ (ਮਃ ੧) (੩੮) ਸ. ੧:੪ - ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੮ ਪੰ. ੧੨ 
Salok Guru Nanak Dev

 

On 5/15/2018 at 2:35 PM, Guest sangat said:

Now she saying she wants to take amrit but only when she's ready and I'm thinking in my head like how are you ever gonna be ready if you're not doing anything towards it and I really don't understand her.

You're right. People who say "I'm waiting till I'm ready" usually mean they'll never be ready.

 

On 5/15/2018 at 2:35 PM, Guest sangat said:

I really need your help here what do I do I need her to take amrit with me I've done ardaas and everything help me. 

You need to do nothing, and just let her live her own life, and you live yours.

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On 5/15/2018 at 12:05 PM, Guest sangat said:

Vaheguru jio I have an issue. I'm a bibi who has a another friend obv another bibi. We were both about to get and get blessed with amrit and then a few months before she fell off the path and now she's doing stupid kinds of things. Now she saying she wants to take amrit but only when she's ready and I'm thinking in my head like how are you ever gonna be ready if you're not doing anything towards it and I really don't understand her. I really need your help here what do I do I need her to take amrit with me I've done ardaas and everything help me. 

No you dont need her to take amrit with you, thats ridiculous. 

 

Respect her freedom of choice and the fact that she walks her own path and you walk on hers. We don't force our religious ideals upon others, thats what the Moghuls did.

Nor do we push others to be baptised. The real baptism is internal, its been said time and time again in Gurbani. 

Do your own thing and let her do hers, respect the freedom of choice of others, and of yourself. 

 

 

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