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Sometimes she does act rude or unmannerly . And then says sorry sorry as if I am not auditing her each and every action and talk insofar it concerns me and my family.

Her aunt cheated her at the last moment , considering my fiance is very poor and her dad prolly cant even throw a proper wedding . So she was expecting her uncle to help her . However the uncle ditched them . So uncle's done ! Her bros are already crrap and dirty guys . 

She doesn't talk to some of her sisters , but the some she does talk to are very close to her and sometimes I have a suspicion that they wind her up against my mom or me. You know girls saying things like "mother-in-laws are almost always evil" .

I don't want my to-be-wife be indoctrinated with such crrap mentality and I am wondering of ways to put seeds of mistrust and feuds between her sisters and her . However a benign part in me warns of not doing so lest I conduct an immoral act. However If I were to , you guys can suggest me some ideas lol 

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2 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

Sometimes she does act rude or unmannerly . And then says sorry sorry as if I am not auditing her each and every action and talk insofar it concerns me and my family.

Her aunt cheated her at the last moment , considering my fiance is very poor and her dad prolly cant even throw a proper wedding . So she was expecting her uncle to help her . However the uncle ditched them . So uncle's done ! Her bros are already crrap and dirty guys . 

She doesn't talk to some of her sisters , but the some she does talk to are very close to her and sometimes I have a suspicion that they wind her up against my mom or me. You know girls saying things like "mother-in-laws are almost always evil" .

I don't want my to-be-wife be indoctrinated with such crrap mentality and I am wondering of ways to put seeds of mistrust and feuds between her sisters and her . However a benign part in me warns of not doing so lest I conduct an immoral act. However If I were to , you guys can suggest me some ideas lol 

I cannot understand this part of the nature of women.

Why they want to sabotage relationships of other women. Their jealously knows no bounds even between sisters.

As a husband you need to set the frame from the get go.

You need to set the boundaries that you will not put up with this kind of behaviour. 

If she does not, call the rishta off.

She will get the message. 

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1 minute ago, Ranjeet01 said:

I cannot understand this part of the nature of women.

 Why they want to sabotage relationships of other women. Their jealously knows no bounds even between sisters.

 

To be fair, I just have a suspicion her married sisters "teach" her how to handle her affairs in her saure ghar. However I have no concrete evidence of it and I will give my fiance the benefit of doubt as of now ! 

However what irks me is the tone of her speech sometimes . Its like "hellloooooo jiiii" . You know extending words when speaking really irks me off. Its such a frigging passive aggressive attitude . So I told her today "what did you eat today (that ur behaving such)" 

that set her straight. She ignored my good morning messages of today morning the whole day. So I greeted her a good morning in evening and stupidly she greeted me a good morning back . So I told her "glad u wished back , u ignored in the morning though" . 

And she was like "oh no jiii sorry sorry very sorry" . However an hour back when my mom called her I think she didn't pick up the call.

Funny though , If you already know who's calling you (number displays on screen) , why cant u start the call with "satsriakal" rather than the relatively ruder "hello" . I just dont get it 

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17 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

To be fair, I just have a suspicion her married sisters "teach" her how to handle her affairs in her saure ghar. However I have no concrete evidence of it and I will give my fiance the benefit of doubt as of now ! 

However what irks me is the tone of her speech sometimes . Its like "hellloooooo jiiii" . You know extending words when speaking really irks me off. Its such a frigging passive aggressive attitude . So I told her today "what did you eat today (that ur behaving such)" 

that set her straight. She ignored my good morning messages of today morning the whole day. So I greeted her a good morning in evening and stupidly she greeted me a good morning back . So I told her "glad u wished back , u ignored in the morning though" . 

And she was like "oh no jiii sorry sorry very sorry" . However an hour back when my mom called her I think she didn't pick up the call.

Funny though , If you already know who's calling you (number displays on screen) , why cant u start the call with "satsriakal" rather than the relatively ruder "hello" . I just dont get it 

Ignore her for a bit.

This is a classic female tactic, they will deliberately not answer though they are very happy that you did. But you seem to be coming across as needy.

These types need to be treated with aloofness. 

When she can't get the attention she will start behaving herself a bit.

 

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11 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

These types need to be treated with aloofness

 

actually she already feels I am aloof to her . Some days back I told her I am working and on internet you can see anything u want . So she said "can u see me?" . perhaps a reference to how I don't call her everyday and talk to her for 1 hour straight lol 

You know I am not really into her .. guys though are hot lol . 

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5 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

actually she already feels I am aloof to her . Some days back I told her I am working and on internet you can see anything u want . So she said "can u see me?" . perhaps a reference to how I don't call her everyday and talk to her for 1 hour straight lol 

You know I am not really into her .. guys though are hot lol . 

I don't know what kind of gay that you are.

But if you are type who hang around <banned word filter activated> hags,  you should have the right kind of silver tongue and wit that will put her in her place.

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11 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

I don't know what kind of gay that you are.

But if you are type who hang around <banned word filter activated> hags,  you should have the right kind of silver tongue and wit that will put her in her place.

No those b*tchy gays pisss me off . I am recording everything in my mind right now. 

If she continues her occassional antics after marriage, I will def give her a strong word on that.

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1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

Ironic that it takes a gay Punjabi to instigate this "play" let alone recognise these micro power games exist in our culture, but the masses of straight Sikh guys in the world are absolutely clueless to the point of foolishness when they fall victim to the machinations of the women in their lives, lol.

Gays have a much closer connection to the female side I guess.

Women work on covert communication, men in the overt communication. It's like we are talking on different frequencies

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21 hours ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

actually she already feels I am aloof to her . Some days back I told her I am working and on internet you can see anything u want . So she said "can u see me?" . perhaps a reference to how I don't call her everyday and talk to her for 1 hour straight lol 

You know I am not really into her .. guys though are hot lol . 

 

19 hours ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

 

Guys are hot i agree with that.

 

You like the more macho man types big strong type lol.

If straight men came on this forum & started speaking about the types of women they like they would be shutdown & rightly so.

Can you 2 keep your gund to yourself... there’s young children that use this site 

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