How to reframe life for kids ...

[jkvlondon]

Some important points made by a counsellor  about parenting in the modern age and how to deal better with the insidious destruction of childhood by porn . Put lajja to one side and educate your kids before the kids get taught by school and porn.

 

[jkvlondon]

how pornified culture alters our children :

 

 

[jkvlondon]

Only solution is teaching our kids , our ways and giving them self-confidence and knowledge to not let themselves be abused . If they have a strong identity they are visible ,  they don't have to follow the sheep into the 'hooker' look  and they will know they look great because we will tell them rather than some leery middle aged groomer.

[puzzled]

I started watching porn when i was 11!  and i became addicted from the very first time i watched it. She is absolutely right, i does take your innocence away. I still remember the first time i watched it! i didn't even know what most of the stuff was!  You become desensitized to it and then start searching for worse and worse stuff! i can see how it can cause problems in marriages.  

Its too easy to access that's the problem...   sex is everywhere, posters, films, adverts, clothes 

[GuestKaur2]

1 hour ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Even the uk bhangra songs are based on this stuff and how it effected me when i was 13/14 makes more sense now compared to then.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OM6uosGdKwI

[GuestKaur2]

1 hour ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Then shortly came the suicide death vids which made me look at real people with death anger thoughts as i look at peoples necks rather than face eyes etc.

How are you with suicide vids now?

[jathasingh1978]

On 9/14/2018 at 10:47 PM, puzzled said:

I started watching porn when i was 11!  and i became addicted from the very first time i watched it. She is absolutely right, i does take your innocence away. I still remember the first time i watched it! i didn't even know what most of the stuff was!  You become desensitized to it and then start searching for worse and worse stuff! i can see how it can cause problems in marriages.  

Its too easy to access that's the problem...   sex is everywhere, posters, films, adverts, clothes 

veerji u commented on my post when i said i was addicted could you please help me if u have experienced it to bro

[Redoptics]

Hard for parents these days, how can they ban TV? Entertainment is littered with sexual content, even in music videos.

[Amit12]

On 1/5/2019 at 8:55 PM, jathasingh1978 said:

veerji u commented on my post when i said i was addicted could you please help me if u have experienced it to bro

i suffered from that problem too...

Just Start Getting Busier and Busier in life ( with sports or anything )  and You wont have the time for that and the Habit will wear off...

[mahandulai]

On ‎9‎/‎14‎/‎2018 at 9:40 AM, jkvlondon said:

Some important points made by a counsellor  about parenting in the modern age and how to deal better with the insidious destruction of childhood by porn . Put lajja to one side and educate your kids before the kids get taught by school and porn.

 

its not even that big a deal