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Only solution is teaching our kids , our ways and giving them self-confidence and knowledge to not let themselves be abused . If they have a strong identity they are visible ,  they don't have to follow the sheep into the 'hooker' look  and they will know they look great because we will tell them rather than some leery middle aged groomer.

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I started watching porn when i was 11!  and i became addicted from the very first time i watched it. She is absolutely right, i does take your innocence away. I still remember the first time i watched it! i didn't even know what most of the stuff was!  You become desensitized to it and then start searching for worse and worse stuff! i can see how it can cause problems in marriages.  

Its too easy to access that's the problem...   sex is everywhere, posters, films, adverts, clothes 

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On 9/14/2018 at 10:47 PM, puzzled said:

I started watching porn when i was 11!  and i became addicted from the very first time i watched it. She is absolutely right, i does take your innocence away. I still remember the first time i watched it! i didn't even know what most of the stuff was!  You become desensitized to it and then start searching for worse and worse stuff! i can see how it can cause problems in marriages.  

Its too easy to access that's the problem...   sex is everywhere, posters, films, adverts, clothes 

veerji u commented on my post when i said i was addicted could you please help me if u have experienced it to bro

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On 1/5/2019 at 8:55 PM, jathasingh1978 said:

veerji u commented on my post when i said i was addicted could you please help me if u have experienced it to bro

i suffered from that problem too...

Just Start Getting Busier and Busier in life ( with sports or anything )  and You wont have the time for that and the Habit will wear off...

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On ‎9‎/‎14‎/‎2018 at 9:40 AM, jkvlondon said:

Some important points made by a counsellor  about parenting in the modern age and how to deal better with the insidious destruction of childhood by porn . Put lajja to one side and educate your kids before the kids get taught by school and porn.

 

its not even that big a deal

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