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WJKKWJKF, a friend of mine recently passed in a tragic car accident. I reached out to his mother, who used to be one of my coworkers and we were very close. She said “please just pray for us,” and I do want to do benti to Maharaj Ji but unsure of what to ask for? Or is there a specific prayer I can do so his aatma can rest in peace? Thank you. 

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Guest Anonymous

Nope, You cant do anything for HIS aatma.......

just pray to god wherever he is, He is Good..... and move on ..........

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yes you can!

you can do matha tekh on his behalf.  you can just do straightforward prayers to God (you don't have to go Gurdwara) to give him peace and give his family peace also.  you can also do Naam simran offered to God on his behalf (e.g. 2 male a day).  You can also give offering to Guru ji at Gurdwara- like a rumala.  you can also give a small donation to langar in his name/ oh his behalf.

you can also read paath on his behalf/ for his atma- shanti, like Japji or Sukhmani.

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Benji,

You can do paath for his atam, it will reach him.  Do Chaupai Sahib Paaths or if you can do Sukhmani sahib paaths. Get his mother to do chaupai sahib if you cannot do that then just do 10 mins of mool mantra. It gets to them and helps them.

When you see a funeral motorcade go by just say in your mind "Guru Ji I am  going to do Chaupai Sahib paath for the atma of this body going by". Do Chaupai sahib ji, it will help the atma departed and you have done a punn and you will also get blessing.

Just think, the atma who may never have done any paath at all and is stuck somewhere very frightening and they won't let it pass because it has no naam. You do chaupai Sahib, bani uchaared by Guru Gobind Singh Ji so the benefit is going to be immense , and as a result the atma is let through, how greatful will that atma be to the person who has just helped it, you gonna get big blessing ! 

 

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you can also add his name to the sangat ardas at your local Gurdwara.  just ask the Granthi to include his name and tell him the reason.  then sangat will pray for him.

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On ‎11‎/‎3‎/‎2018 at 11:40 AM, Guest Anonymous said:

Nope, You cant do anything for HIS aatma.......

just pray to god wherever he is, He is Good..... and move on ..........

Well, the truth is always bitter ;-(

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Do paat AND be sure to take/ hear hukamnama during funeral/ Aakhri Ardaas. Giaani ji will read Hukamnama. Listen to it intently n tell fam to do the same. If u don't understand wha was read ask Giaani Ji or another person who will. Hukamnama IS vital and blessed are the ones who follow it. YOU WILL GET AN ANSWER! Of wha steps to take next.

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On 11/2/2018 at 2:20 PM, Guest Guest Kaur said:

WJKKWJKF, a friend of mine recently passed in a tragic car accident. I reached out to his mother, who used to be one of my coworkers and we were very close. She said “please just pray for us,” and I do want to do benti to Maharaj Ji but unsure of what to ask for? Or is there a specific prayer I can do so his aatma can rest in peace? Thank you. 

Do ardas and Pray that he finds the light and moves on with his journey 

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On ‎11‎/‎2‎/‎2018 at 11:20 AM, Guest Guest Kaur said:

WJKKWJKF, a friend of mine recently passed in a tragic car accident. I reached out to his mother, who used to be one of my coworkers and we were very close. She said “please just pray for us,” and I do want to do benti to Maharaj Ji but unsure of what to ask for? Or is there a specific prayer I can do so his aatma can rest in peace? Thank you. 

youre going to pray for guy, just because his mom said?

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1 minute ago, mahandulai said:

youre going to pray for guy, just because his mom said?

Sikhs ask for Sarbat Da Bhalla. We do ardas and prayer daily for everyone - Newborn, dead etc. 

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