Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?

[Sewadar]

Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?

[namespace]

NO

Why?  Because then sex is only for the thieves and has no purpose.   Also I live in the US with a very large homosexual population and it is important to note that a person is not simply gay.  Homosexuals typically do many other things that are sinful when compared to your average straight person, not by the basis that they are homosexual but it just comes with the territory.

[GuestKaur2]

2 hours ago, ADMIN said:

Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?

No, the Anand Kaaraj is between a man and a woman and Vaheguru. Two people of the same gender cannot get married in Sikhi, it simply fuels kaam and nothing else. You end up forgetting about Vaheguru, then you forget about why we are even on this world and waste your life in sinful acts.

[jkvlondon]

6 hours ago, ADMIN said:

Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?

ask the same question on sikhnet and they will try to softpedal ... and say it's up to the individual

[mahandulai]

6 hours ago, GuestKaur2 said:

No, the Anand Kaaraj is between a man and a woman and Vaheguru. Two people of the same gender cannot get married in Sikhi, it simply fuels kaam and nothing else. You end up forgetting about Vaheguru, then you forget about why we are even on this world and waste your life in sinful acts.

who said?

[jkvlondon]

17 minutes ago, mahandulai said:

who said?

Guru Sahiban from Guru Amar Das onwards formed the rehit of Anand Karaj . Never has there been a same sex marriage.A sikh's duty is follow the Guru alone.

 

 

[jkvlondon]

OK so first marriage broke up because one girl fell for a GUY ..

second  both were in disguise and used Army person's help to solemnify this gandh(what is it about sikhs in the army my Mama is happy to get his daughter married to some maharastran dude even though they refuse to even come to Punjab to do engagement) , on top of this they did matha tek at vaishnu devi first , why not marry there then ? Fact is Baljit already has a roving eye ...can't see it lasting .

 

[GuestKaur2]

3 hours ago, mahandulai said:

who said?

You have nothing productive to say have you?

[GuestSikh06]

As a Gay person myself, I would follow the point of a marriage being between a man-woman in a Gurdwara and fully respect that in context. In terms of LGBT people being lustful/sinful, it all depends on your own thoughts on the situation. For example, say if you met me and you came to know I was Gay from my own words, then If you think I'm sinful then all you'll see me is being a sinful individual. At the end of the day for me personally, it's limited to an orientation rather than a lifestyle because it's part of my own build-up and I don't need to push it onto anyone because it's a personal matter that I should only reflect on myself. When it comes to situations about it being in a Gurdwara then I can agree it becomes an issue. I would love to answer any questions and I'm sorry for offending anyone on here as I've noticed some people simply despise it. 

[jkvlondon]

43 minutes ago, GuestSikh06 said:

As a Gay person myself, I would follow the point of a marriage being between a man-woman in a Gurdwara and fully respect that in context. In terms of LGBT people being lustful/sinful, it all depends on your own thoughts on the situation. For example, say if you met me and you came to know I was Gay from my own words, then If you think I'm sinful then all you'll see me is being a sinful individual. At the end of the day for me personally, it's limited to an orientation rather than a lifestyle because it's part of my own build-up and I don't need to push it onto anyone because it's a personal matter that I should only reflect on myself. When it comes to situations about it being in a Gurdwara then I can agree it becomes an issue. I would love to answer any questions and I'm sorry for offending anyone on here as I've noticed some people simply despise it. 

it's not that we hate it , but we hate the idea that the people have zero intention to follow the Guru and do a sham of Anand Karaj  much like those atheist/other faith people . it's insulting frankly, better to go get a court marriage .