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Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?


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Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?  

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  1. 1. Do you believe marriages between same-sex couples is valid in Sikh Dharam?

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4 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

those which are business transactions I guess such as beards to hide truth of gay man, passport based weddings

I meant when 2 LGBT people get married undercover as man-woman for the happiness of there family and in-laws. What you are implying is a sham marriage. By the way sorry, what does ''beards to hide truth of gay man'' mean?

@Not2Cool2ArgueI think this answers it maybe :) 

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4 hours ago, GuestSikh06 said:

I meant when 2 LGBT people get married undercover as man-woman for the happiness of there family and in-laws. What you are implying is a sham marriage. By the way sorry, what does ''beards to hide truth of gay man'' mean?

@Not2Cool2ArgueI think this answers it maybe :) 

a 'beard' is the term used for a sham marriage to hide a gay man's or gay woman's from the general people so what you described just now .

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5 hours ago, mahandulai said:

more like, the issue wasn't even an issue, and brushed over, so basically yeha

there have always been homosexual people , just Anand Karaj is the prescribed way to lead a complete grisht jeevan . Guruji knows the innermost hearts of us all so doing a sham marriage fools no one and is only piling up pain for later. Try reading gurbani ... 

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8 minutes ago, GuestSikh06 said:

Hi Sangat, I came across this and found it very interesting if anyone’s interested below: 

 

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but then again this sufi was not active but waiting on Akal Purakh's mehr while he was doing bhagti ...please try not to put words in Guru ji's mouth he has told us what is our path . Akal Purakh ji sees our hearts and actions Akal Purakh is not for/against anyone , neutral thus Guru ji is neutral towards paapi and punni , he does kirpa on all according to our karams .

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10 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

but then again this sufi was not active but waiting on Akal Purakh's mehr while he was doing bhagti ...please try not to put words in Guru ji's mouth he has told us what is our path . Akal Purakh ji sees our hearts and actions Akal Purakh is not for/against anyone , neutral thus Guru ji is neutral towards paapi and punni , he does kirpa on all according to our karams .

First of all, those are not my own words. 

Second of all, it's for educational purposes ''for people interested''.

No more and no less, and this was not related to marriage it's an interesting story especially because today is Gurpurab and my thoughts are on Guru Nanak. There's no part of me ''putting words into Guru Ji's mouth'' how rude of you?!

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Just now, GuestSikh06 said:

First of all, those are not my own words. 

Second of all, it's for education purposes ''for people interested''.

No more and no less, and this was not related to marriage it's an interesting story especially because today is Gurpurab and my thoughts are on Guru Nanak. There's no part of me ''putting words into Guru Ji's mouth'' how rude of you?!

bro I'm not being rude , but I have had the experience of another gay sikh twisting and inserting words to justify lifestyle ...didn't want anyone go down that line because it is dangerous for that person's future happiness. Guru ji treated Kauda a cannibal just the same as Sajjan thug  same as all the others who wanted his kirpa.

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