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Can a Sikh marry non-sikh in front of Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji?


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Can a Sikh marry Non-Sikh?  

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  1. 1. Can a Sikh marry non-sikh?

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2 hours ago, imhosingh said:

If both parties want to be married as per sikh tradition, will both parties also have funerals as per sikh tradition? Why does 'marriage' always bring out this topic? 

frankly those who insist to do it for the photos  won't necessarily be insistent about their antim sanskars because they won't see it .

 

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I used to know a girl at school who told me when she gets married she wants to wear a lengha which a short top so that her belly shows, she said it looks sexy. Should someone whose intention is to look sexy on her anand karaj really be having anand karaj?

Lets be honest here no one actually cares about anand karaj lol, it all about the photos, reception party, food, outfits, colours, when bride enters and walks down towards guru ji that's her big moment, all focus is on her and her tacky jewellery and outfit. Brides in general are the centre attraction of most Indians weddings. 

 I remember when my cousin was getting married he was nagging my mum to give the granthi money so that the granthi would cut the anand karaj down and end it fast so they can start the reception. 

Once I was watching sikh channel and bhai Mohan singh, the one who catches paki pedos, said he once was at a anand karaj and the bride was demanding the granthis to move guru Nanak jis portrait because it was ruining the photo shoot. 

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2 hours ago, puzzled said:

I used to know a girl at school who told me when she gets married she wants to wear a lengha which a short top so that her belly shows, she said it looks sexy. Should someone whose intention is to look sexy on her anand karaj really be having anand karaj?

Lets be honest here no one actually cares about anand karaj lol, it all about the photos, reception party, food, outfits, colours, when bride enters and walks down towards guru ji that's her big moment, all focus is on her and her tacky jewellery and outfit. Brides in general are the centre attraction of most Indians weddings. 

 I remember when my cousin was getting married he was nagging my mum to give the granthi money so that the granthi would cut the anand karaj down and end it fast so they can start the reception. 

Once I was watching sikh channel and bhai Mohan singh, the one who catches paki pedos, said he once was at a anand karaj and the bride was demanding the granthis to move guru Nanak jis portrait because it was ruining the photo shoot. 

problem is , people in general do not understand anything about sikh way of life either in terms of ethics, practicalities , rites of passage or even values to keep in mind looking for life partners , to have in family life  let alone paat .There has to be more education about what the sikh=gurmat attitude is on these issues .

If the parents have zip knowledge , the kids will be even more disadvantaged in the battle against the negative influences of this world. i.e. the parents have failed in their duties , so what if rinky pinky and tinky have the latest phones, fashions and cars if they have zero self-respect and act trashy  or bittu hunny and sunny have flash cars, big watches and flash clothes to impress the girls but have zero knowledge of what their roots and true culture is .

marriage is not for one day its for life and that is what these deluded peeps can't see

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16 hours ago, imhosingh said:

If both parties want to be married as per sikh tradition, will both parties also have funerals as per sikh tradition? Why does 'marriage' always bring out this topic? 

why does funeral even matters ? what is the difference if your body is burned or buried... when your Soul gets judged immediately...

 

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6 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

problem is , people in general do not understand anything about sikh way of life either in terms of ethics, practicalities , rites of passage or even values to keep in mind looking for life partners , to have in family life  let alone paat .There has to be more education about what the sikh=gurmat attitude is on these issues .

If the parents have zip knowledge , the kids will be even more disadvantaged in the battle against the negative influences of this world. i.e. the parents have failed in their duties , so what if rinky pinky and tinky have the latest phones, fashions and cars if they have zero self-respect and act trashy  or bittu hunny and sunny have flash cars, big watches and flash clothes to impress the girls but have zero knowledge of what their roots and true culture is .

marriage is not for one day its for life and that is what these deluded peeps can't see

what is the sikh way of life ? who decides it ? who has the authority ? just asking.... new here

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not sure whether admin purposely reworded both questions in thread title and op just to provoke response but this shouldnt even be up for debate.

can a sikh marry a non-sikh in front of sri guru granth sahib ji? no

but its going to keep happening, and this might harsh to some, until a lot of the older generation committees die out because they wont give up their greed/easy income so easily for anyone or anything...

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