Can a MONNA be a better SIKH than a Guy with TURBAN ?

[Amit12]

If a Monna is a very good guy, do bani everyday, do charity, help the poor, does hardwork to earn, share his things/earnings with others believe in one god, believes that there is nothing else and everything is GOD.... Can we call him a better sikh than an arrogant Turbaned Sikh guy ? 

[puzzled]

Why not     I saw a video of a singh dry humping and woman in front of him while waiting in a line at a gurdwara.  Just because someone is dresses religious on the outside doesn't mean they are the same in the inside.  These days some amritdharis commit adultery, secretly drink, many think they are allowed to eat meat, abuse their wife, sleep around etc  its hardly a secret anymore.

But if a monah gets into sikhi then slowly it will start showing on the outside 

[Big_Tera]

The turban does not make the person. 

Its a bit like the taliban regime. Saying all muslims need to wear a turban and have a beard. 

We have some fruitcakes in the Sikh community who think the same. 

my experience is judge someone based on their actions. 

I have met so many <banned word filter activated> turban wearers that like to think their all high and mighty and better then everyone. When they are sleaze balls and creeps. 

Many even use the turban to get away with bad behaviour. 

 

[puzzled]

Lol ok let's not start bashing them because of the actions of some. I have come across young singhs whose sikhi and faith inspired me. It's just a shame that some of them are corrupt and creating a bad image, it's actually disappointing because you kind of look up to them and think I want to be like that too and then you see all these messed up videos and just feel disappointed.   Regardless we should all aspire to become singhs because that's what guru gobind singh ji told us to become.

I remember once watching a a video on a porn site of a old singh with white dhara having sex with a young woman, you could see his gatra as well.

 It's best if we don't get fooled by the image because We just don't know what's inside. 

[BhForce]

3 hours ago, Amit12 said:

If a Monna is a very good guy, do bani everyday, do charity, help the poor, does hardwork to earn, share his things/earnings with others believe in one god, believes that there is nothing else and everything is GOD.... Can we call him a better sikh than an arrogant Turbaned Sikh guy ? 

Please tell me why it is that a person has to "do bani everyday"?

[jkvlondon]

I have to point out the big elephant in the room ...

NO ONE IS SIKH

by virtue of birth

by association with gurmukhs

by name

by birthplace

by ancestors

by reading

by talking

WITHOUT FOLLOWING THE GURU's MAT   no matter of outside libaas , claims , dietary regime.

WITHOUT FOLLOWING THE REHIT SET BY GURU SAHIBAN

[jkvlondon]

The thing is to be a sikh you have to be in the activity , in the moment , travelling the path else you are NOT; you are stuck in the quagmire of the world sinking deeper , you are facing the world not the Guru , you are paying attention that sound not the Guru's voice.

[Guest GuestSingh]

dont consider or like calling myself a 'sikh' because name means very little these days...

almost all panjabis (especially myself) and amritdhari ones as well as the outsiders who convert are not sikh, a true, proper devout and fully practicing one, even though many of them will happily take pride in calling themselves one....

[ipledgeblue]

6 hours ago, puzzled said:

many think they are allowed to eat meat, abuse their wife

lol admin someone is starting meat topic again.... 

 

I thought we are not allowed to mention it on this site?

[Amit12]

Then by all of your answers it means that a person just have to be brown and wear a Turban ( in man's case ) to have anand karaj.... Right ?

His Character doesnt matter..... Just wear a turban and you're good to have anand kaaraj