Women who date non Sikhs - What should we do with them?

[puzzled]

just disown them, if the family are not happy with it then just tell her to leave. would you really want a slapper daughter living in your house? no 

i have a female cousin thats been disowned.

But things are changing, many parents are ok with their daughter dating and marrying non sikhs, look how many sikh females marry non sikhs with the parents present at the weddings too. times are changing.

iv seen videos of where the girls parents tie paghs on their non sikh son in laws and celebrate jaggo and other pre wedding ceremonies with them ...  

[Amit12]

4 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

So are people saying disowning is not a viable threat? 

That is like comparing apples and oranges and adding a banana to the equation. 

#StereoType

[buddasingh]

On 12/3/2018 at 5:52 PM, Big_Tera said:

What should we do with them? Now that the have done this horrible, disgusting and shameful deed. No one will want to marry or have anything to do with them in the Sikh community. Im tslking about girls dating goreh, kaleh and what not. 

I know a couple of dirty skets who dated non sikhs. Basically they have been black listed and ex communicated as they are now seen as dirty and inpure with no Sikh in his right mind wanting to have anything to do with them let alone marry them. 

Should they might aswell leave Sikhi? As no one will want to marry them anyway?

 

 

Men who think like this - What should we do with them?

Sorry bro, no personal attack intended. But some food for thought for you. And hopefully some hope for sisters of the world and this forum that there are men who stand behind you in your fight against this type of sexism. 

BT somewhere in your thinking there may be something constructive on an issue. Please think it through, as the comment comes across as sexist rant, not as a meaningful contribution. 

[Premi5]

9 hours ago, puzzled said:

 

But things are changing, many parents are ok with their daughter dating and marrying non sikhs, look how many sikh females marry non sikhs with the parents present at the weddings too. times are changing.

iv seen videos of where the girls parents tie paghs on their non sikh son in laws and celebrate jaggo and other pre wedding ceremonies with them ...  

These people are an embarrassment! 

This mainly stems from poor parenting. 

 

[puzzled]

4 hours ago, Premi5 said:

These people are an embarrassment! 

This mainly stems from poor parenting. 

 

But that shows you it's not the kids that decide to not follow sikhi it's even the parents, we blame the offspring when a lot of the time it's actually the parents that have a lack if interest in sikhi.

Then again you can't actually tell someone to follow sikhi, if they decide not to then that's how it is.

My mum's cousin isn't religious and says religion is bs, so he didn't bring his kids up as Sikhs either. A lot of the time it's parents who decide not to follow their ancestral faith so they don't pass much of it down to their kids either.

[puzzled]

Now and then my dad's slips out something like  religion isn't important as long as you are a good person that's the main thing. A lot of middle aged punjabis think like that, and that's why many of them didn't bother passing sikhi down to their kids.  

It really isn't the kids but the parents.

 

[Amit12]

4 hours ago, Premi5 said:

These people are an embarrassment! 

This mainly stems from poor parenting. 

 

LOL, to me those parents seems right cuz at least they are INCLUSIVE and not discriminating anyone on the basis of religion..... UNLIKE US.

i'm not supporting this.... but it seems its really hard for them ( Parents/Girls ) to find a Good Non-discriminating, Non-Stereotype Sikh MUNDA....

[puzzled]

8 minutes ago, Amit12 said:

LOL, to me those parents seems right cuz at least they are INCLUSIVE and not discriminating anyone on the basis of religion..... UNLIKE US.

i'm not supporting this.... but it seems its really hard for them ( Parents/Girls ) to find a Good Non-discriminating, Non-Stereotype Sikh MUNDA....

Do you live in India by any chance? 

[Amit12]

51 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Do you live in India by any chance? 

yeh 

[puzzled]

42 minutes ago, Amit12 said:

yeh 

Ok, thought so