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On 12/22/2018 at 7:44 PM, Redoptics said:

Some families if higher caste , shout it from the rooftops lol

Also can become very volatile when couples wanted to get married, sad if you ask me, i had a cousin who wanted to marry out of caste , her parents said no, and she ended up with a muslim. Such a sweet , beautiful young lady also did her paath and everything. 

 

Do you think this experience has changed attitudes about inter-caste marriages in your family? 

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Just now, Redoptics said:

Ohh definitely, this happened around 20 years ago, I'm Ramgharia and my wife was Jatt , no issues what so ever about caste from either families when we got married.

I've noticed that as well. Most marriages with the younger generation in my fam is cross caste. Those old fuddy duddies really messed up a lot of potentially good relationships in the past. 

 

 

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5 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I've noticed that as well. Most marriages with the younger generation in my fam is cross caste. Those old fuddy duddies really messed up a lot of potentially good relationships in the past. 

 

 

Yes they did, hopefully it will stay in the past, we don't need that crap, we have enough to deal with anyway,  without people getting their knickers in twist over caste.

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8 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I've noticed that as well. Most marriages with the younger generation in my fam is cross caste. Those old fuddy duddies really messed up a lot of potentially good relationships in the past. 

 

 

and effectively ending the bloodline of sikhi within the family - cuz almost every one of these <banned word filter activated> aint gonna become sikh nor will their kids

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4 minutes ago, GuestSingh said:

and effectively ending the bloodline of sikhi within the family - cuz almost every one of these <banned word filter activated> aint gonna become sikh nor will their kids

I'm a bit confused about what you are saying here? Can you clarify? What exactly is ending the bloodline of Sikhi in your opinion? 

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1 minute ago, dallysingh101 said:

I'm a bit confused about what you are saying here? Can you clarify? What exactly is ending the bloodline of Sikhi in your opinion? 

sorry bro, filtered word was $ulleh

if apne cant intermarry through caste, theyll start looking outside like an earlier post said..

certain apne are more likely to do bhangra if their girl marries an outsider e.g. chitta than one of their own..really sad and pathetic

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