Mmm. Makes me think of being centered, or balanced. First one is centered, and self determined, capable of providing for and protecting one's self, and through abundance, others. Then one can collaborate within the small family group which in turn should have that same foundation grounded in the same values and as such be prepared to collaborate with other like minded family groups.
So the individual Sikh and the entire Sikh Paanth should be taken care of from the ground up, by itself, for itself, to such an abundant degree...that it can then provide even for outsiders if called to.
So selfish and selfless virtues must be in balance, starting with self determined abundance. Which seems to be where the Paanth is failing.
All aid as far as we can tell is only being given to outsiders, and major organizations have heavily influenced and corrupted...infiltrated and maligned the greater Paanthic organizations.
They already have chief of the groomers and kidnappers was the chief minister of kashmir omar abdullah who married a sikh woman converted her to islam and had kids with her.
Some of these Sikhs are so low IQ its embarrassing, they actually offering their daughters and sisters to the islamists with fake one way brotherhood. Not having the balls to tell non-sikh hostile communities to do one.