Would you marry someone whose not virgin?

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20 hours ago, Guest guest said:

its very hypocritical of a guy if they too have had pre marital sex.  

I agree, a guy who has pre martial sex and then wants a virgin  bride is a hypocrite. 

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People who have sex before marriage have little respect for themselves, their families or for sikhi 

[Redoptics]

59 minutes ago, puzzled said:

People who have sex before marriage have little respect for themselves, their families or for sikhi 

What if they got into Sikhi, later on in life ?

[Redoptics]

Also how are defining 's€x' ? Intercourse and penetration? Or are you also including oral and messing around(trying not to use distasteful words) 

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40 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

What if they got into Sikhi, later on in life ?

Nope I still wouldn't. I don't see it as a small thing. I wouldn't want my wife and the mother of my kids to be a ex h0e. Such people have lose morals and no dignity or self respect. I don't understand how these people can look their parents in the eye after doing that. 

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Also iv kept control and maintained myself so I expect the same from my potential wife. I also have respect for my mother and wouldn't want her to have an ex h0e for a daughter in law

[RajKaregaKhalsa1]

42 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Also how are defining 's€x' ? Intercourse and penetration? Or are you also including oral and messing around(trying not to use distasteful words) 

1. Par istree, ma bhain, dhee bhain, kar jaananee. Par istree da sang nahee karnaa — Other than your wedded wife, consider all women as your mothers and sisters. Do not indulge in carnal marital relationships with them. 

(15th hukamana of the 52 hukams)

Maharaj would not allow any of it

[Redoptics]

1 minute ago, puzzled said:

Nope I still wouldn't. I don't see it as a small thing. I wouldn't want my wife and the mother of my kids to be a ex h0e. Such people have lose morals and no dignity or self respect. I don't understand how these people can look their parents in the eye after doing that. 

I think that's an  unfortunate way of thinking,  but each to their own I guess.

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I have self respect and respect for my family and don't want to be married to someone who has been around. I wouldn't feel comfortable about it either tbh 

[Redoptics]

15 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I have self respect and respect for my family and don't want to be married to someone who has been around. I wouldn't feel comfortable about it either tbh 

I think everyone wants that, but sometimes life doesn't work out the way you want.