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8 hours ago, RajKaregaKhalsa1 said:

Whenever you think about watching it or even think about another woman think about Kalgidhar Paatshah and think would he be happy. Would it make him pleased that your lusting over a woman? Maharaj says we should look at a woman older than us like a mother, a woman similar age as us like a sister and younger than us like a daughter.

Bhai Sahib explains in many many videos (more than what I've linked above) on why Kaam is dangerous and how to face it.

Hopefully that helps

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ

 

hanjee thank you so much brother do ardasa for me to mahraj help overcome this addiction

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3 hours ago, Redoptics said:

Same with wrestling industry  sheer amount of deaths are next level.

Then you get Chyna who goes from wrestling into porn and she committed suicide.

 

vaheguru thats sad it ruins the peoples lives who watch it too

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1 minute ago, jathasingh1978 said:

bri thats what iam going through that addiction

Well take the lesson, the brother is giving, I am sure you will get through it.

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Just now, Redoptics said:

Well take the lesson, the brother is giving, I am sure you will get through it.

thanx bro i hope so step by step its been 4 years and im only 17

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1 minute ago, jathasingh1978 said:

thanx bro i hope so step by step its been 4 years and im only 17

Do not worry, you know the problem and you are trying to find the solution,  you are half way there. We are the disease, vaheguru is the cure.

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1 minute ago, Redoptics said:

Do not worry, you know the problem and you are trying to find the solution,  you are half way there. We are the disease, vaheguru is the cure.

satbachan jee vaheguru

 katia rog maha sukh paia vin sai paap gavia naam deea naam deaa 

ur right bro i need to have more faith in waheguroo then the disease will be cured

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3 minutes ago, jathasingh1978 said:

satbachan jee vaheguru

 katia rog maha sukh paia vin sai paap gavia naam deea naam deaa 

ur right bro i need to have more faith in waheguroo then the disease will be cured

Now you know the answer paaji :)

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Following are some  inspirational Sat Bachans, which if put into action, will give release not only from kaam, but from all those actions/karam, which take us away from Him, and throw us in the dirty mud of maya moh and vikaars :

ਕਰਿ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਮਸਤਕਿ ਹਥੁ ਧਰਿ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਮਾਰਿ ਕਢੀਆ ਬੁਰਿਆਈਆ

Kar Hukam Masathak Hathh Dhhar Vichahu Maar Kadteeaa Buriaaeeaa ||

करि हुकमु मसतकि हथु धरि विचहु मारि कढीआ बुरिआईआ

By His Command, when He places His hand on our foreheads, wickedness departs from within.

To solve the alike problems, the first step is to realize them, then can only be taken the second step to get rid of them.

Guru Jee above is telling us how can the maladies leave us. You see just desring to get rid from them is not enough, for that one must take a conscious step, means, not mere words nor desires, but action.

And according to Guru Jeee above, they the vikaars depart from within us,  when Waheguru Akal Purukh  blesses us with His gracious touch.

And brother, that touch is only possible, when we hold on to His sacred Name : Waheguru.

Prabh ka simran, man kee mael jaae.

If we do His simran, His jaap, with regularity and  with faith, a miracle takes place within us, our vikaars flee, our mind gets purified, then He takes place within us, gradually.

But for that, our efffort has to be there, nothing is free, even for His grace, as we are already dirty and ugly,  we have no option, but to provoke His grace, by making Him happy, and brother, that is only possible by His bhakti alone.

 

Stay blessed.

Sat Sree Akal.

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8 hours ago, Unknownlost said:

You are right it did start off with porn addiction that led me into watching death vids and trying to commit suicide.

That wasn't directed at you, I wrote that because some people on here end up having a go rather than actualy help the person lol 

As a teenager you get into the habit of masturbating and watching porn, your get hooked on and then as an adult you find yourself trying to get out of the habit which isn't easy when you've been doing it everyday for many years. 

It's like trying to stop eating sweets and other sugary stuff 

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Guest InderdeepRobotWaala

Brother,

Many have experienced this stage so it is not uncommon. However, a brave comes out like a boss. You need to know how to make Lassi and enjoy it with family (or friends, or with just yourself). These things are small enough that we don't ever care about. It is so small that it is smaller than an ant, less harmless than me pocking you softly.

It is not even a thing to worry about. I can image you're feeling trapped, but hey, this trap is just for flies. You can wave your hand, remove the web, and get out of it.

I'd suggest trying gym, making YouTube videos, starting your own company, or reading books. I didn't used to read and was full of excuses but realized reading is good. Read tech/journals/articles or even Sikh history.

Addiction is a sign that you're free. This sign means you're growing up to realize that this void time can be filled with something VERY VERY useful that'll be helpful for your future.

 

Hit any of us up (we're all very talented) for advice regarding Science, technology, or anything.

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you watch pornography because on some level you continue think it's ok to do so (media brainwashing).  so you are suffering from conflicting beliefs.  you need to let go of that idea that it's ok to do so.  not by fighting against the urge, but just by telling yourself thats not the kind of person you are and thats not the kind of thing that you do.  

i seriously doubt it is an 'addiction'.  it's more likely an entertainment for you.    and i seriously doubt its causing you to fail.  if it wasn't pornography it may be something else.

i suggest you start associating with a studious, well behaved group of classmates.  and also put your phone away and ban all unnecessary (unrelated to study) internet use.

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Guest jigsaw_puzzled_singh

Wow....so many amateur psychologists 😃

The OP starts his thread by stating he cannot complete any college coursework because every second of every minute of every hour of every day is spent thinking about pornography. I posted a reply showing that what he said could not possibly be true. 2 days later the Mods / Admin here delete my message and we now have a free for all of a hundred amateur psychologists / porn experts not one of which has been able to see how the 'not been able to concentrate on coursework' problem is a result of other problems and the 'porn' is just an excuse.

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