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Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

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22 minutes ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find opposite caste girls more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slighly put of by them as they look so similar to me and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I definnantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

But doubt I would ever marry someone of another caste as it would cause big issues. 

 

 

Another point less post by a brainwashed casteist. 

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Lol that is a very odd question.

I think Khatri women can be really beautiful and probably the most beautiful among sikhs. 

From my experience Chamars girls can be really pretty, went to this chamar wedding in India and I was like damn!! Lol    them girls were all dolled up looking really good.

Some jatt girls are Ok  not really my type though ... 

Doesn't really matter though does it ...  

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8 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

An old saying in punjabi literature, “ dooje di thaali da laddoo hmesha vadda hi lagda hunda” ??

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11 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

'Caste' is the wrong word to use because many will see it in it's historical context, i.e one of discrimination and inequality. There are however different groupings and each grouping as it's own facial characteristics and to ignore them is like a Englishman ignoring the fact that a Frenchman has different facial characteristics despite just 20 miles between them. Personally, I am not attracted at all to your grouping (bhatra) as everyone seems to look exactly the same. Very little variety. Not attracted to khatri girls either mostly because their pale skin tone doesn't look healthy at all. It resembles western heroin addicts that lack nutrients from the sun. Their skin doesn't have a healthy glow. I much prefer girls with a darker hue. They have a much more healthy and thus attractive glow about them. So, not so much 'castes' or groupings within Punjab, but I do find myself attracted to either Iranian girls who are without  doubt the most beautiful in the world or Gujarati Patel girls with darker skin tones. 

What i like about this thread of yours however is the fact that its not afraid to say that men find women attractive. I certainly do and it's a good thing. The alternative - as we've found is becoming an increasingly big problem within our community - is to become ambivalent to gender and start being attracted to your own gender. The day I stop finding females attractive is the day I turn into a  wooly woofter.....and that ain't happening !!

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16 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

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23 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

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